Do you think that girl should stay at house and to be housewife?

no way could i be stuck at home all the time with just children for company it would drive me mad, women have rights too, we have a right to be independant, to have careers and anything else we want in life, i think the only problem men have with this is that they either still living inthe middle ages or cannot handle the compotition

i think if i will to marry someone and will ask me to stay home and look for kids all day, i will think twice in marrying the man...i speak for myself, man should respect my independence and that will carry on until marriage...

oh by the way accroding to reent statistics on divorce..the rate on divorcing a housewife is higher than working wife...

I will not agree with you sabahking..I believe, women is the "Light of Home"..But For me, i'll become a housewife until my kids grow up and went to elementary stage already..Women, want to go to work in order to help their family in their financial needs..How if your husband is a small earner of money from his job? You can't afford everything to buy for your family needs..Even you are working mother, you have the duty to give time and care to your family specially children..Mother still knows best for their Children.. A very interesting topic.

Hi sabahking,

Well is nice if mothers can stay home with their childre while husbands work, but in this day and age sometimes mothers have to work because of the cost of the cost of living is high but mothers wotk part time so when the children are back from school they are there for the children, we don't have cyber cafe so much here as most homes have computers and the children in the house on the computer so they safe at home.


Tamara

I disagree with you, I don't think that a woman has to stay at home with the children for the kids to be good. Nowadays there aren't that many men that will really take care of a housewife like they should. I think a lot of women need that independence. Personally I don't ever want to be a housewife. Not to mention the cost of things today, everything is expensive now. The cost is just going up and up. I think that a woman is very capable of going to work and still having time to spend with the children.

I don't agree at all. I think it's great that women are becoming more independent. That way, they're able to support themselves if something happens to their husband or they have to leave their husband. It's very good that women aren't required to stay at home and be bound, unconditionally, to a man any more.

I know of a lot of families where the men actually are the ones that stay home with the kids! I know a lot of people that have great careers and lead happy lives who were raised by single working mothers. I also know of a lot of people who have a 'traditional' family where the woman stays at home and the kids are hooligans and total brats who get into a lot of trouble.

It's not whether you're at home or not; it's whether you actually take the time to talk to your kids and work with them. A parent at home isn't required for that.

in my honest opinion,i really believe that women have a different structure than men.for one,women pay very much attention to details.they do so well at home,and can take care fo the house and home better than men.i am not saying that all men are irresponsible/what i am saying is that women in general are better.for the men,since time began,men have always been the one to go out and work.even in early times,men would do the hunting for the family to have something to eat.this is why men are built to be more masculine and stronger.however,lots of women nowadays find it a part of life and society to be working.for the others,it is actually the financial hardships that pushes them to work.i have total admiration for these women.

I think it's not necessary for girls to stay at house and be housewives in order to give good education to their children. It's all depends on how the parents teach the children. Both parents who are working outside do not mean that they can neglect their children's education. Parents should always have good time management on both careers and family. For instance,like me,I was grown up in a family where both my parents are working even now, they can manage their time very well with their jobs and our family. I think it all depends.

Hi Sabahking, I'm surprised that you would think that if women stay at home as housewives, this will solve the problem of delinquents. Is there any statistics that show a higher percentage of delinquency among children with working mums? I'd be interested to know.
Well, if you can earn enough to take care of your wife, the children and all the household expenses, mortgage, education and so on, Then, I suppose your wife can afford to stay home and take care of the children. Most wives work nowadays, as the husband's income alone is not enough.
And also, it's your wife's opinion and decision - whether she feels that she can contribute better as a housewife, or as a working person, bringing in more income so that she can provide better care for the children.

I think it would be nice if women stay at home not only as a housewife but as a mother to the children. The children will be guided properly and their needs will be attended well. I feel empathy for children who grew up with both their parents working. I grew up with my mom at home. I really feel I've been taken cared of well and nurtured properly. I also feel loved that way. In our country, mothers are said to be "lights of the house" for all those things they do. They love, nurture, guide, and care.

On the other hand, if a mother is able to do so, she can balance work with family/children. Women also have rights to have careers and attain professional development. Work can give a sense of accomplishment. And, mothers need to work too because they need to provide for their families too. It really depends on the type of household and what a woman prefers to do in her life.