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nylnemnad (81)   ranked 1,292 out of 6,714 in friend1 month ago

i was 22 then, he was 19. were in a circle of friend so its so hard hiding my feelings for him cause were almost together most of the time..the hardest part is, he considers me as his older sister and he loves my younger sister with the same age range as him..its really complicated..i didnt fight for what i feel because i know i would just end up hating myself and deeply wounded..i just cant bear the pain back then seeing them dating..i survive the pain..how about you,would you rival your sister for a guys love??

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. yenwie84 (697)   ranked 1,743 out of 6,714 in friend   1 month ago

In this case, I will never compete with my sister to grab a guy. Never ever. I think I will respect the guy's choice. If he has chosen my sister, I will just let go and wish they have a happy ending. That's it. I think nothing is more important and precious than our family compare to an outsider (a guy). Maybe you are surviving in pain now,but slowly time will heal your wound. I am sure.


nylnemnad (81)   ranked 1,292 out of 6,714 in friend  1 month ago

your absolutely right thats what i did. at first it hurts but time will heal the would. i did not regret what i did beacause its the right thing. my sisters happy now and im happy for her.

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2. myLot reputation of 81/100. darksorrow (688)   ranked 516 out of 6,714 in friend   1 month ago

It's really painful when you like someone & don't get them. I have not been through anything like this but i have seen in movies that how painful it can be for someone. I can not feel how much pain you felt but i can understand that it was lot.

You said it was your sister with whom you were jealous. At the same time you showed your sharp thinking ability. People can not control themselves on times like this.

You did not only controlled yourself but did what is best for all of you. I appreciate this.


nylnemnad (81)   ranked 1,292 out of 6,714 in friend  1 month ago

perhaps the most difficult part is forgetting him and letting the feelings go without him knowing. its so hard giving up the only one you know would make you so happy and complete. i guess doing the right thing always hurt.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. Tianna2 (697)   ranked 263 out of 6,714 in friend   1 month ago

I know its hard but I think in this case I would never fight for a guy that thinks of me as a sister. You would end up feeling realy bad for a relationship that might not work out and then your sister would end up hating you for nothing. In a situation like this, all you can do is be happy for your sister and wish her the best.

Hugs, Tianna


nylnemnad (81)   ranked 1,292 out of 6,714 in friend  1 month ago

thank you so much tianna. i guess his not really the guy for me. thats what i thought also, our relationship will not prosper due to the age gap so i decided to move on.and i made the right decision after all. my sister and i are still close and the guy and i maintain a good friendship.

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4. myLot reputation of 84/100. meiji15 (370)   ranked 1,882 out of 6,714 in friend   1 month ago

no, i won't do that. because i have no chance in getting the guy if my competitor is my sister. if you've seen my sister, then hands down, she'll win. not to mention that she's intelligent and that she holds an officer position in a multibillion corporation.

clearly no competition


nylnemnad (81)   ranked 1,292 out of 6,714 in friend  1 month ago

really a tough sister huh..lol..i would definitely wont compete with that one..hehe..kidding aside though, maybe i would fight for him if its not my sister he fell in love with..

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5. myLot reputation of 79/100. mEisky (513)   ranked 1,909 out of 6,714 in friend   1 month ago

no i cant..haha.its just that i cant compete with her just because of one guy.?omg.there's a lot of guys out there.and i know she'll never compete with her younger sister,meee!!!!:) lol..


nylnemnad (81)   ranked 1,292 out of 6,714 in friend  1 month ago

maybe your so close with your sister..me too..i love my sister so much and i wont mess up with our sisterhood..she looks up to me..so i must be a model sister. hehe

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