Do you Click easily with people I do?

people tend to take to me very easily and usually after the first time i have met someone the are refering to me as there friend but i do not click this easily with people, untill i know and trust some one very well they are just an aquantance but only when i know they can be trusted will i call them my friend

I usually click fairly easily with people too, although as a child I had a harder time because I was shy. I make friends easily, and I usually keep them forever, even if they move. I have friends from my childhood, and ones I've had for 30-40 years, even though they've moved to different states. (Thank heavens for email lol!)

There's a lot to be said for intuition and gut feelings about somebody. Most of the time it's 'right on' but sometimes, as when first meeting somebody, it can be off a bit because they're shy, were having a really bad day, or something like that. Mostly though, I think we can also pick up on those things too. Generally, I think women have better radar lots of times than men in that regard, because we're so attuned to feelings and subtle signs. I've definitely had bad vibes from people, and more often than not it's with good reason.

I click easily with people who share common interests, ad on social networks such as this, but in person in a crowd, or when pressued by peers (in a clsss room setting) I am not a very social person, and I do not click very easily.

I have a handful of friends.. those friends I have had over 30 years and some others that I've had over 10 years... but I don't click with everyone. There has to be some kind of chemistry.. like when I get to know someone and it is like I've known them all my life. I'm friendly with everyone, but not necessarily friends.. they could be more of acquaintances. My friends are for a lifetime.

Yes marcie I am a people person also, & can pick up usually when they are good or a bad person. I do have good judgement in picking friends. They say you always pick out friends that are alot like yourself in many ways...Lori

hi there
i have very few close friends as i don't trust alot of people as i have always made a friend with some-one then some idiot comes along & ruins the relationship in some-way.
so in some ways i would rather be thee for myself & then not have the problems to deal with them.
latas lamb101
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I believe I can "Click" well with people. There are some people I enjoy being around and some I don't, but I try not to push people away (Even if I really want them to leave). I guess that is just in my nature. I can always seem to tell when there is a "bad egg" in the group.

I can see by the people who responded are some of my friends too, there is a bunch of us that have clicked with each other. Some of us go way back close to the beginning of mylot, we are still here. I am so thankful for finding mylot and all of you.

I consider myself to be a very good judge of character. I know when something is not quite right or when a person is not what they make out they are.

It is something that has to be learned though, and while I've made very few, I have made some mistakes along the way.

I try and give people the benefit of the doubt, and keep my gut reactions about them to the side.

Hi there marciascott

As I am a very outgoing person and will chat to almost anyone I would say that yes I do click very easily with people. There are very few people I haven't got along with in life. A friend of my mine moved to the town we live in before I did and we were walking down the street and I must have acknowleged at least 8 people during this time, to her amazement and she continuely asked me who's that? Where do you know them from etc? Some of the time I have got a clue, I can't help it, I am a friendly person!