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myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house3 months ago

Ok everyone, I have a question for you all. I have bought two houses in the past and feel that I was taken advantage of with the purchase price. So, my question is this:

When you see a house that you love and you are ready to buy it becasue you just love love love it, how much do you offer? Let's say for discussion sake the house is $100,000. Not that there are that many for that price anymore, lol!

So, say the house is $100,000. Do you offer the seller $100,000 or do you offer a lower or higher amount? If it is lower, how much of a percent can you knock off of the price. I mean I wouldn't want to insult the seller, but I don't want to be taken advantage of any more.

Please any help out there would be so appreciated. We are planning on selling our house soon and then getting another one so I really need to figure it all out. I know we will really not be making too much of a profit if any on our current house with the current housing situation in this country.

So, please if you have had any experience with making offers or have any suggestions or tips to pass along - please share with me.

Thanks so very much for your help! Have a nice day and happy myLotting!


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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. katiedoubleu (2837)   ranked 65 out of 366 in buy a house   3 months ago

Hi Schulzie! I suppose everyone who answers this will have a different answer, but I can just tell you what happened in our case.

Four years ago, we found our dream home. It was perfect from the first time we laid eyes on it. The realtor said we'd probably do well to offer a bit lower and since we never bought before, we didn't know about those things so we did it.

As we were leaving the house that first day, another family came in to look at it but we still took the advice and offered less. I'll tell you, it tortured me for DAYS that we'd lose it if those other people would offer full price. Torture!

So in our case, although it worked out fine and we got the place, it would have saved us a LOT of anxiety to just offer what they were asking. happy

That said, sellers usually*do* come down in price for the right buyer, but no one knows if that's them or not. Today's market is bad, so you can probably get a better price.

On the other hand, I know a person who, in the scenario you mentioned, would offer $105k just to be sure he got it. w00t

I guess what I'd say is to offer near to what they want if you would be heartbroken to lose it, but take a chance and knock some money off if you could move on and find another house if it doesn't work.

I hope you'll keep us posted on how you made out with this!


myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

Wow! I bet that was awful waiting in anticipation to see if you got your house! I will have to see how it works out. I am glad you got your dream home after all!

We have to sell our present home first before we can start looking at other houses to buy. I'll let you know how it turns out for us.

Thanks for your advice! I appreciate it.

Have a great day and happy myLotting!

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. mummybec (259)   ranked 40 out of 366 in buy a house   3 months ago

Well usually with most people I know they would offer anywhere between 7 - 15k less as thier first offer and then go closer to the advertised price after that! I do not know where you are and if that would be any different. I certaintly do not know anyone who would be willing to pay more than the asking price especially with house prices where they are now!! i should know as we are currently looking at buying a house:)


myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

I think we just have been very naive so far in buying houses. So you say maybe $15,000 less for a house? Would you say that amount might go up depending on the price of the house? For instance, if the house was listed at say $300,000 do you think that $15,000 would be enough to take off or would you try to ask for even more off? I just don't want to screw up the deal. Also, once you have made an offer on a house and then if the seller does not accept it - can you put another higher offer on the table?

Thanks so much for your advice. Good luck in your house hunting!

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Have a great day and happy myLotting!

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myLot reputation of 89/100. missybal (3450)   ranked 38 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

If you make an offer and they deny it and they don't counter you can still offer another higher offer and see if they will counter from that. Still don't go up too high, give room to counter. Occassionally buyers will ignore offers because advised to do so by agent or they have a mind set that their house is worth this much. You got to stay strong... don't fall in love.


myLot reputation of 95/100. mummybec (259)   ranked 40 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

Thanks for the good luck we have only just started to look now:)

Depending on the house would depend on how much less you would offer... then if they so not accept it at least you can always make another offer, and sometimes they may come back and say well they will not accept this price but would take this amount instead either way you would never pay the asking amount - always get the house cheaper than advertised for.


myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

Thanks for your advice. I don't know why I always thought that once you made an offer that is set in concrete. And that once you made an offer and it was refused that you would be unable to make a second offer or new offer. I am so stupid to have paid full price in the past. Live and learn.

Again, thanks so much for the advice!

Have a great day and happy myLotting!

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myLot reputation of 95/100. mummybec (259)   ranked 40 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

You are not stupid at all.... like you said live and learn, also I do not know where you live becuase in some places you may not offer soo low... might just be a little bit under the price. Have a great day!!

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. chingbeem (260)   ranked 123 out of 366 in buy a house   3 months ago

my husband and i have purchased several properties because his work requires him to be relocated in about 4-5 years.he doenst want to rent.he purchase a house then sell it when we need to move again.of course, u must gain profit from selling a property. thats the mai purpose why one buys...to sell for profit..how we do it? find out the existing lot rate in the area. i just dont know if this goes the same in your place...like in our village, lots costs,$150/square meter...our property is 300 sq mtrs...we compute.thats for the lot.then,we estimate the value of the house...so the house must be in a very good condition...we see to it the the price is reasonable but we still have profit...we have a house rented too...you can earn more if you'd rent it out,though must be very strict with rules to maintain the house well


myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

That must be frustrating to have to move so often. Thank you so much for your advice!

Have a great day and happy myLotting!

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. bunnybon7 (1029)   ranked 56 out of 366 in buy a house   3 months ago

i dont know if this will help. you need a really honest good real estate person. i got the best last time. but this is a mobile home with built on florida room. they wanted $ 29,000/ he said offer less. i offered 25. my bank stepped in and said after the appraisal and inspection it was only worth 19. and then only if they fixed a couple small things. they did and finally came down to 19. but then i found out that there was 3,000 closing! i said forget it, i cant pay that and they offered to split closing. any way, come to find out it was sitting here for 7 yrs on the market. it might help to know how long they've been trying to sell. the bad thing for me is, id had to sell a 140,000 house for 67,000. because it was a rush.:>((
not cool, huh?


myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

OMG! I am so sorry to hear about you having to sell your house so much lower than what it was worth! That is not cool at all!

Well, thank you for your advice. I wonder if I should hire my own inspector to come in. On this last house I bought I just used the inspector that the seller hired. Big mistake I think because there was lots of stuff wrong here.

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Oh well, live and learn.

Have a great day and happy myLotting!

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myLot reputation of 94/100. bunnybon7 (1029)   ranked 56 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

well. my bank hired the inspector. yes, i would think its not good to trust the sellers inspector.

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. snowy22315 (5090)   ranked 98 out of 366 in buy a house   3 months ago

I think you should always offer slightly less than the asking price. My house now I only offered 4,000 less than the asking price but I probbly could have gotten it like for 10,000 less. I wanted to offer a fair price but I could have probably offered 5,000 less and not felt guilty about it. In today's market I'm sure you could offer almost whatever you want to.


myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

I have never offered less than the asking price. I was very naive coming into it. Now I am older and wiser.

Thanks for your advice!

Have a great day and happy myLotting!

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. missybal (3450)   ranked 38 out of 366 in buy a house   3 months ago

Insult the seller???

That is what real estate agents say all the time.. you don't want to insult the seller... well you got to look at the market. Today's market I'm sorry but if they want to sell their house they will have to come down on the price. You got to look at the houses listed in the area and then what they have sold for recently... a good agent will tell you what houses in the neighborhood sold for. If they don't find another agent. A lot of people selling their houses bought at the bubble when times where very good so they will not get that back many times if they must move during these hard times. You need to look at structural problems... so many times these sellers have dressed up their house to sell but I have found foundation issues and roof issues and the fact there is all old windows. You joke that you can't get a house under $100,000 but in my area you can get a very good one for that price. In fact I put an offer in for only $55,000 on one house. The house looked picture perfect with pergo flooring and new carpet and new paint on walls new tub and toilets and real clean... the down fall the foundation was starting to crumble. The roof was 20 year old, and all windows were old... It would cost me $15,000 to $20,000 to do just these main necessities and there was no way with how small a yard this house came with and the street it was on that I could get $70,000 to $75,000 out of it. If the work you see costs more than you can get after doing the work you do not want the house. It was hard to walk away because it had a lot I wanted but a lot was what I'd want to rip out anyways... they put carpet over the most beautiful wood floors and put the prego flooring above the old flooring and cut antique beautiful carved oak doors to fit it... made me want to cry. The house is still on the market today 6 months later and I still have given them the best offer they have ever gotton. Don't be pulled in by agents saying you need to jump now. They are out to make money too... this of course depends on the area you are looking in. Some areas the market is still booming but for most it is on the decline. Look on how long the average house has stayed on the market. Start at eh accessed value of a house but do keep in mind that most assessments are made based on the outward appearance. So don't think if it's assested at that that that is what it is worth... you need to be willing to walk away otherwise you will be taken advantage of.

As far as selling your house... clean is the game... no bright colors keep it neutral and staging very important. You don't want to over price your house if you want to sell now.. If you can wait to sell try for more and be open to offers... but don't be so high it will scare away buyers. Look at your area, go to other open houses and don't believe what the agents say... it's all business. Some convince their home owners that their house is worth more than it is and when they don't get it they deny offers they should have taken... like the offer I gave that the owners now asked if I would come back to it but I've moved on to better houses at what I offered them. You don't want to deny $150,000 because you wanted $155,000 just to find out 6 months down the line that no one else will offer better than $145,000. So really do the research... do not depend on agents. Bad agents are the reason why houses are staying on the market for years in my area. Always low ball when offering... They can counter... the likely hood of a second offer before you can get in the next are low in this market (again I dont' know yours), but you can always find another and I'm glad some of mine that I really had my heart set on fell through. They required too much work and I got smarter as I went along.


myLot reputation of 89/100. missybal (3450)   ranked 38 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

Good tip..
Before making an offer or upping an offer, you can ask contracters to give you estimates on how much it would take to repair roof or to fix foundation and they tipically will not charge you. This way you get an idea on the repairs you need to make without paying for that inspection after they except an offer that ends up being more than what the house is worth. After my last offer on a house I had a contracter give me an estimate and it was $8000 on the foundation and $7000 on the roof and I knew I offered too much already and I was not comfortable with that even anymore and they still wanted more money than that. You can also include these estimates in future offers as an explaination as to why you are offering what you are offering and it may help people realize they should sell and most times they prefer to sell as is and not have to do more repairs in order to sell although you can put it in the contract that they must fix this or that... it's more profitable for you to fix expecially if you are handy.


myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

Thanks so much for your very in-depth answer. This has answered many questions I have. I got into a crappy deal with my present house so I have learned a life lesson there. Should I hire an inspector myself to tell me what is wrong or ok with the potential new house? I want to make sure that it is a thorough inspection and I am not being lied to.

Thank you again so much for your advice - I appreciate it!

Have a great day and happy myLotting!

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myLot reputation of 89/100. missybal (3450)   ranked 38 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

I would suggest you get a full inspection before finalizing on the house. It's just easier if you use the contractors to give you an idea with their estimates on cost of repairs so you don't start off by offering too high to start with. You wouldn't want to put an offer in for $150,000 and they approve just to get to the inspection and after finding out all the repair costs wish you hadn't gone above $140,000.

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7. mommyathome (85)   ranked 119 out of 366 in buy a house   3 months ago

I would offer anywhere between $10,000 - $15,000 thousand less than the asking price. This gives you some room to increase the offer if necessary. With the market as bad as it is tight now, you may get lucky and the seller accept your first offer! Good Luck!


myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

Thank you very much for your input and advice. I appreciate it really.

Have a great day and happy myLotting!

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. sedel1027 (11842)   ranked 49 out of 366 in buy a house   3 months ago

The answer is - it depends. If the house is 100% perfect but the market doesn't say $100K, I wouldn't offer that; if the house needs repairs, I would offer $100,000 then put in a credit request for all repairs needed. Odds are they put those up for more than it worth, so you need to know the market. If the houses in that neighborhood are selling for less, then you should offer less. If the like your offer, they will counter it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

Thanks for your advice on this. It is always great to have others ideas and strategies in mind especially for something so large of a purchase as a house.

I appreciate your answer.

Have a great day and happy myLotting!

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9. myLot reputation of 55/100. meiyeec511 (343)   ranked 127 out of 366 in buy a house   3 months ago

I think you should put a budget for yourself, if it's over the budget too much, then better don't get it.

If the house condition is very good and the price just over your budget a bit, I think it's worth to buy.

You have to consider overall about the house when you buy the house.


myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

Thanks so much for your advice! I do have a price range in mind, just don't want to pay more than what the house should cost.

Have a great day and happy myLotting!

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10. myLot reputation of 71/100. heart4u (360)   ranked 173 out of 366 in buy a house   3 months ago

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myLot reputation of 99/100. schulzie (1108)   ranked 2 out of 366 in buy a house  3 months ago

Thank you, I do think the price should be lower as well.

Have a nice day and happy myLotting!

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