the more you hate the more you love how true?

I think that hate/love relationship comes from when children are at play and little boys often hit the little girls they like and little girls sometimes do the same. As adults, some people are simply attracted to the people that they think they hate because something about their personality always seem to bring out a passion emotion that they use to react with and they seem to enjoy it. In reality, the majority of people that find love, rather be with someone that respects them and displays affection toward them that can also bring out a more positive passion that is enjoyable. If there is anything about a relationship that is love/hate it would be minor personality differences that often compliment each other. Example: He's a slob and she's a clean freak or He's quiet and she can't shut her mouth. Thus comes the overused cliche' physics statement "Opposites attract". You keep posting too heart4u

they say it is but not sure bout it you?

it depends dude with your partner

it may be in some cases. but when the hurt is too much and you hate, the hate is ghate. it can't turn to love as i guess.

Hi heart,

I have no personal experienced about this but with few friends I can attest..SO, maybe it depends really! Like one friend of mine used to hate the person whom her husband this time...She hates to see him, hear his voice for no reason at all..And they end up marrying with each other...

In my case, I have a classmate in High School whom I hate a lot since he is very irritating and very demanding. My friends will always tease me that I will end up loving him and I know deep inside I will not do it..I can imagine how chaotic our life would be..LOL!

When we met one time, he was with his girl and we get over with our dog and cat relationship..LOL!