Is there any one who can tell me a true live story which had problems

Hi Vanilla,

They say opposites attract but that is for short term only.

If both of you are just as stubborn, it may be more heartache than ever.

My true story with good ending can go on forever, because there is too many.

But at the end now that I have two kids and feel like an old old lady, I have to say the decision sometimes may seem like a big heartache, but you will realize that was no big deal when you are older.

When I look back at some of the things i used to think and do, I laugh now.
Only if I could turn back time and redo everything differently.

yes i had my cousins love story hich had very much problems and they were loving each other from their college times but their parents did not firstly agrred upon their relationship but with the mutual undertanding between them made hteir relation ship successfull and now they are married to each other amd they are living a better haapily married life

if you know he is the love of your life, why give up? i've been through some big fights with my partner but we didn't give up. actually we've only been through two big fights in the ten years we are together. it was pretty bad and we were talking about letting each other go. thankfully we didn't give up as the love we have for each other is too strong. we are both stubborn people but it's not worth it to lose my soulmate for stubbornness. we both gave in and stayed together. don't give up if you really think he is the love of your life. you might not be able to find another loves you half as much. cheers

Well here is a good one. I met my husband several years ago over 411 while I worked for the phone company. We met and seemed to get along until I found out he had a drug problem. I wanted to walk out then and there because I had just been in one bad marriage and didn't need another one. Somehow we stayed together and mainly we had similar religious beliefs that kept us together. With God in the middle he turned away from drugs, we had 5 kids (I was infertile), I'm a stay at home mom (something I never thought I'd be since we were financially lacking) etc. Not all relationships turn out like this but with God in the middle anything is possible.

hi Vanila sorry for the late answer, I dont have such a story from my own first hand experience but I know at least two people who have broken up with their loves for quite some time but got back together again after realizing what they have lost. One is a former colleague and I am working together with the other one. Both are married now and as far as I can see they are happy. So it can work out to part ways for a set period of time and to see what you really miss and then decide to get back together.