It's a sad thing to be happening to anybody in life.. not to have somebody on our sides when we are down in our lives. Not to worry! You will always have the Mylot community behind you, supporting you and accompanying you through your journey in Mylot! Have faith! I'm sorry to hear that your business is not doing so well nowadays. Hopefully, you will be able to pull through and your business will start getting better and better. Try not to fret too much over it, ok? Close friends and relatives.. hmm.. it's human nature to be selfish. You will realise that when the going is good, you will always have people around you, but when the going gets tough, that is when you will realise that we are actually alone, very alone. People just don't want to be around us when we are failing badly in the stuff that we are doing. That is human. Are you sure these are true friends? True friends will always be there for you no matter what. When things happen, and they are always not there, you should start to wonder if these are really friends or are they people there for a free ride when things are going well for you! I too had this experience before. Years back, when everything in my life started collapsing around me, there was no one out there for me, no one to accompany me and to support me. It took me years to realise that I am only popular on the surfacce area and I have no true friends to talk about, not even those so called 'close' friends of mine. Well, well, well it takes a hard knock in life to find out who are our true friends and who are not. YOu may be surprise to find that the one who will be willing to be with you, to support you in times of failure is not always the ones that we think we are particularly close to, but they will be there for you. At that point of time, I was at a all time low of my life.. and I did contemplate suicide most of my waking times. But luckily I was strong and young, and thus I used work to get rid of the demons of my past. I took on about 5-6 jobs and I was busy every single day, sometimes just catching 1-2 hours of sleep everyday. It's taxing on my body and health but it did helped in ridding myself of my demons that kept me awake night after night. I am pleased to say that after 4 years of battling my demons, i am finally free from them and I am leading a very fruitful life today. And I no longer look back on the past and regret. Rather, I look back with a fond smile as the past is part of who I was and am today at present moment. Well, I hope that you are also able to meet some true people in your life, and that you will be able to walk out of this with a smile on your face. Take care and all the best for your future! Happy mylotting!
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