do you still take care of your family member's feelings?  |
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 well, as some of you may know,
my mom is a foster mother
and she is looking after 3 boys now, aged 12, 3 and 4
and the thing is, i feel that sometimes we are so obsessed on having a good time that we do not really care about their feelings.
such as a few days ago.
we went to have dinner together and with my sis's bf.
and they, my sisters and the bf, were all taking pictures of my brother.
without his permission.
and when he tried to do the same, they got really pissed.
so i was thinking, do you have this events when you are so familar with each other that you neglect to take care of how someone may feel?
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1.  Kingofthekings (254) | 4 months ago |  Yes i still take care of my family members feelings
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 raclie (918) | 4 months ago | ok thanks | |
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| 2. ahgong (2601) | 4 months ago |  Well, I guess when you live together long enough, you tend to take the other people in your family for granted at times. It is very natural. And it happens from time to time.
Just make them aware (your sis and her boyfriend) after they cool off. Then maybe get her to apologize to your brother.
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| raclie (918) | 4 months ago | ok, thanks....
i feel that way too.
just hope he still treats us as family.
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| ahgong (2601) | 4 months ago | I am sure he will.
There is no overnight grudges between family!
If everyone were to hold a grudge every time there is an argument, there will be no more harmony within the family.
Not the way to go for a healthy family.
Talk to him if you think he is still nursing a grudge. | |
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| raclie (918) | 4 months ago | ok, thanks for the advice!!!
i will use it!!!
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| ahgong (2601) | 4 months ago | You are most welcome my friend.
I hope whatever grudges your siblings may have, would have dissipated by now. | |
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| raclie (918) | 4 months ago | lol..
i hope so too!!!
i think it has...
or maybe he is just secretly holding a gruge...
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| ahgong (2601) | 4 months ago | That is even worst!
Better to talk it out than to bottle it up.
Bottling up feelings is like a time bomb waiting to explode.
When the explosion occurs, the damages are really hard to repair! | |
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| raclie (918) | 4 months ago | i know...
but it is rather difficult for me to know if he is holding a gruge or not.
he is still being nice to us, so i think it is ok...
hope so!!!
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 Ruthep (4179) | 4 months ago |  thanks for the best response.
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| raclie (918) | 4 months ago | yes, sometimes you feel that you are family and you can say all you want, but you are not close, and so are unable to...
and also, since they are your family, you have to take extra care on what you say as it may leave them with a bad impression of you.
but...
wow, the relationship between your husband and daughter, it sounds so right and it just seems like the best way to hold a relationship with someone!!!
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| Ruthep (4179) | 4 months ago | we still have our conflicts. But we like our house to be peaceful an this is the only way to do it, or that I know of anyway. | |
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| raclie (918) | 4 months ago | lol...
well, we all try our best...
most of the times anyway...
how old is your daughter?
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| Ruthep (4179) | 4 months ago | She is 11. That nice age when she thinks she is old enough to do anything. Testing the boundaries, ya know.She will be 12 next month. | |
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| raclie (918) | 4 months ago | lol...
i'm late then...
or i came out of it really late...
for 4 years i was really mean to everyone who cares for me..
and i think, my family thank their lucky stars that i have become more conscious of other's feelings and do not hurt them on purpose...
so, well, i THINK i turn out ok, room or improvement is vast though, but much better than i was before.
so, well, just tide it out i guess...
wow...
12 soon...
my brother is 12...
and he is really lame...lol...
but girls, my younger sis is 14, and i think she went through her 12 year old body rather well...
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| Ruthep (4179) | 4 months ago | or Gwen is early. She has been through so much and has had to really grow up sooner than she should have to. I would swear she has been a teen for a couple year already.lol | |
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| raclie (918) | 4 months ago | oh well...
i think my sisters are forced to grow up as well...
our mom became a foster mother 4 years ago and we were thrown into being young "mothers" helping our mom whenever possible...
so she is not the only one...
dont worry...
i think she will be ok... | |
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| raclie (918) | 4 months ago | ok, thanks alot
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5.  tjonys (139) | 4 months ago |  Appropriate care for the family's feelings is necessary, of course, we can have our insistence, only that you should learn how to choice! But since we are a family, it is necessary to spend some thought to operate it, including taking into account their feelings!
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| raclie (918) | 4 months ago | yes, thank you...
i mean...
we usually do, but sometimes we are just forget when we get too comfortable with each other..
its tough, but we try out best most of time...
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