I felt so bad for my dear friend,..wish she didn't told me about it!!!

..sometimes,i want to hate my friends for coming to me just to tell me about their problems[lol].i cannot deny the fact that it feels good when you know your friends really trust you but sometimes,its kindda hard to feel that way when you got affected with what your friend just shared with ya..just like what happen to me yesterday.A friend came to me seeking for advise and telling me her latest problem with his husband.Gaaah!..she's not dependent with me but she just seem to like telling me their personal problem and asking for my opinion after.it was not a problem to me though,..but not this time after ive just been to a really difficult situation concerning another friend also.anyway,what will you tell your friend if she ask you about your opinion and action to be taken if you were in her shoes?she found his husband acquired another asset without asking for her opinion or telling her abt it?she accidentally found out that he is hiding something from her when she saw a sent message of her bro in-law from the company's cellphone that she issued to him.that message gave her a hint that there was something she should know that they are not telling her about..and so she confronted her bro in-law regarding that..wherein the poor guy was left no choice but to tell her everything.and so,she learned that her husband bought a huge house and lot located in an exclusive subdivision also and that his husband ordered their trusted employees in their company that she runs that she shouldn't know about it.their trusted employees at their company knew abt it because her husband sometimes ask for their help during the constranction of the house there.she felt so betrayed and really mad at him and even to those persons who knew all along and did not tell her.[sigh]..honestly,if i were in her shoes,i'll dump him even if we have three kids!..i can't stay in a relationship without trust and honesty..what about you guyz????!!