how do i delete a discussion i already started?

All I know is that only MyLot has the right to delete posts and responses. But of course, they will delete something if it violated their terms of use.

You can visit the URL below to know more about this subject:
http://www.mylot.com/o/terms.aspx

And guidelines as well:
http://www.mylot.com/o/topguidelines.aspx

Only myLot admin can delete a post. You can send a message and ask them to, but don't hold your breath waiting for them to do it, because they may or may not.
Send a PM to the username "mylot" and include the link to the discussion you want removed.

Hi there Rocker!

He's right. You cannot delete a topic or discussion that you started. I actually have a few that I would like to delete but I just can't. Maybe because Mylot paid for those posts and responses posted to it.

it can't be done after you have posted t alraedy in mylot.

hehe now that got me curious to go to your profile to see what discussion you did that you would want deleted lol
Anyway i seen discussions about this, where someone needed one deleted as coursed a few upsets between mylotters, the person did manage to get it deleted, i didnt see the discussion but see the next one of him thanking mylot for deleting it.
you have to mail them and with a good reason why want it deleted.

We all done discussions, maybe through feeling depressed or annoyed about something, then next day or later wished we hadn't done it.. Few times seen discussion saying sorry to mylotters about a previous discussion lol