Do you feel jealous of the discussions that get a lot of responses?

Well I can not say that you can call it jealousy. I do wonder how they get so many responses, but at the same time I know it's because they somehow became popular. Without that possibility I would say that the responders are not only those that are friends with them but also those who are attracted to the discussion. If you have a lot of friends most likely you'll get more responses but I don't really worry about having too many friends on my friends list. I'm happy if i'm on today's top discussions because that means the discussion has been rated a lot.

Hi friend,My blessings for getting 100 responses.If you get 1$ give me 50 cents ok?just kidding ....I dont feel jealous but I wonder how people are getting topics and earning lot of responses.All the best.Keep mylotting.

no, but it does surprise me that discussions which are frequently repeated or very similar to others seem to attract so many responses - but,I suppose there are constantly new members joining who haven't seen them. I think there are a number of factors which affect how many responses are received and not all of them are related to the quality.

I get jealous at times, because even if the topics I made have a little or no sense to others, I really wanted it to be filled with good and honest responses. Guess my queries will remain like that, empty and hollow.
And then I tend to look at those discussions gaining many responses, and think to myself "Why are those discussions getting responses? Is mine terrible or out-of-the-world enough not to get some too?"
I guess that's just how the way things go...You cannot force others to answer your every questions...it saddens me a lot. But then to those who responded I love them so much. Heehee.
But I don't think about earnings...I really wanted some honest responses, and then I don't get some. And I see those discussions that have very simple everyday questions like "what is love" and everyone's getting the hype about it...

No I don't because I understand all of us have preferences. We may have posted the right discussion but yet getting few responses due to so many factors. My mind is open to certain probabilities, you know. I am very much happy though for those people who are the lucky ones to have gotten as much as 90 or more responses.


CHEERS!

Its humane. All of us feel this The Jealousy. But all have also one more longing to become one like them. I too have this feeling honestly.
All of us can do, but we should have try for that. Take part the discussion wit those who are in leaderboard.

yea at times i feel jealous on seein sites tht attrct more reponses than mine....but i too get a okish amount of responses...so no bad feelings..

sometimes i used to feel jealous. but now i do not feel jealous.i think its may not be in my fate to get more responses. there are few people who rule her and get many responses for whatever they start

it's a mix of jealousy at the same time a push for myself to post a better topic and to receive a lots of responses.... good luck
happy posting!!!

uhmm.. i don't know? but that makes me eager to think or to make a better discussion in the future. coz if they can then why can't I?

I think it is in a proper way of representation... that is how i understand it... if i make a good discussion, it can attract myLotters to respond to it...

and i am learning from the seniors and the newbies here, thanks to all of you