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myLot reputation of 95/100. crazyoverpurple (1751)   ranked 549 out of 27,901 in people3 months ago

Have you ever met someone who always makes you feel left out? Someone who always seems to stick it to your face that you don't fit in?rolleyes

I've met several people like that. What's sad is that at first, they'll make you feel as though they could be 'potential' friends. They'll be all chummy with you, friendly. But when you meet them again, they'll be like, "Okay, so, why are we hanging out?". It really made me feel like I was the odd one out, that there was something I wasn't doing right. doh

But, after meeting several "momentary' friends, I've acquired this mentality or way of thinking: IF PEOPLE OR "FRIENDS" MAKE ME FEEL LIKE I DON'T FIT IN, IT DOESN'T MEAN THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG. I TAKE THAT TO MEAN THAT I AM JUST TOO EXTRAORDINARY TO SETTLE IN THEIR ORDINARY WORLD.
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. vera5d (2122)   ranked 58 out of 27,901 in people   3 months ago

I haven't felt that way in a long time, not since middle school or high school probably. Friends like that don't seem like real friends to me. Only a small handful from that time do I still talk to ever.

Don't worry, someday you'll find mature and good friends:)

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. easymoney75503 (1258)   ranked 39 out of 27,901 in people   3 months ago

i get that feeling at work all the time. at first everyone wanted to be friends and now that i have got promoted and trying to get promoted again they talk about me all the time. i just try and do my job the best i can. i dont kiss up etc i just do what i should do and dont goof off like try and sneak out for extra breaks etc. the other day we had pot luck for our team and i had some things that came up to where i just wasnt able to bring anything. granted in thepast i brought more then most and no one is ever told you cant eat but i was told this the other day. i felt like th out cast. everyone on our team in the conferrence room eating, laughing and having a great time and i was sitting outside in teh back smoking area. there was another girl cause she is buddy at work that didnt go in there cause she didnt think it was right either. she stayed with me and the two of us just felt like the red headed step kid that no one wanted. i mean i was told i couldnt go cause i didnt bring anything. i will never do anthoer pot luck in my life at that place or bring stuff for everyone. so many times i went and got juice, muffins, cookies, and fruit on saturdays when we had to work for everyone just cause i wanted to and to be nice and they did that i felt 2 inches tall.

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. OceanTiara (2173)   ranked 4,156 out of 27,901 in people   3 months ago

Hello crazy
That is an excellent attitude to take when facing ostracising from others..it takes maturity and a lot of experience to be able to accept this sort of thing from other people, but it is a given in life, it is going to happen to all of us at one time or another, so we may take a good lesson from your words here today. Thank you for always being so bright and positive. xoxo

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. ElicBxn (8908)   ranked 1,548 out of 27,901 in people   3 months ago

What an AWESOME point of view! I say to myself I don't want to hang out with those boring people anyway!

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