what is some advice you would give?

The best advice I can give to you is that you should never, and I do mean never, end the evening being angry with one another. Whether married or not, never give either of you time to let things boil, it is best to sort things out before ending the evening

I can give you advices but its up to you. Being in a relationship, you should show commitment to it. Respect, Trust, Love are some of a happy relationship should have. It is normal having argument with your partner, but like what people always say reconcile and make up before going to bed. Well, it can be but sometimes it can't. If its just a little misunderstanding then you can do that. But sometimes you have to let a day pass by just to give time for yourself and your partner to cool down and give time to think. Don't let anger control you. And, just be yourself!

The main thing in any relationship is the understanding. without it nothing works well. trust should be there. off course the person should be first worth of it.still if mistake is committed try to admit it and say sorry.

Hello jhl. Personally I think that it is very important for both to be interactive with each other in many ways. Ok, I think that it might make it easier by being supportive, sincere, loyal, loving and caring. With all of these personalities, it will make your relationship firmer. This is my own experience only. Thank you for your discussion, jhl. I wish you happy for your relationship as always.

Well there is no way you can actually have a perfect relationship but at least having a patient, understanding and respect for each other is one of the key of a smooth relationship. When you learn to understand your partners needs and wants and try to understand that it is not just a one way thing. That relationship should be give and take. Then i know for sure your relationship in the future will work out. Respect your partner as much as you respect yourself and vice versa. Listening to what he had to say before sharing your own point of views about certain things that you have not agreed upon is also very important. Instead of nagging and trying to make your partner guilty over things he had done it will be nice if you give him a chance first to explain to you why he did that and discussed the problem in a calm way so that both of you will understand each other better. A good open communication between the two of you will help a lot to make the relationship stronger.