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myLot reputation of 97/100. dolce_vita78 (4230)   ranked 12 out of 29,024 in life3 months ago

How will you react?

What do you do if someone comes to your house and breaks something that you really treasure? You know, something that is really important. Do you get mad immediately? Or will realize it was an accident? Or expect them to pay for it? How do you react at first, do you get mad but then realize it wasn't their fault -- perhaps an accident. Or will you forever hold it against them? Will your reaction be different if someone close to you did it compared to someone you are not close to?

 
 
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magojordan (2230) response was accepted on 10/4/2008.
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tags:  life, angry, reaction, someone break, your stuff
 
1. myLot reputation of 93/100. rainmark (2149)   ranked 4,250 out of 29,024 in life   3 months ago

If one of my valuable stuff break by someone, i would be get mad.I may feel so much angry specially if it has a memorable value.But that's an accident, you can hit or slap someone for it. It's up to him/her if she offer to pay it or replace it.SO next time, i will not going to display my valuable stuff to the place which someone can touch it.Cheers!


myLot reputation of 93/100. rainmark (2149)   ranked 4,250 out of 29,024 in life  3 months ago

You can't hit or slap someone for it, rather,sorry typo.cheers!

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2. momoly (3)   3 months ago

i will just say my reaction.if he or she is a stranger or almost a stranger,when the thing happen,,ok,i will just say to myself"oh my god,dont tell me it is true!"yes,being angry is a natural thing,but i cant express my anger,because he is a stranger!!maybe you cant understand why.but on the contary,if he is my friend or somebody who is close to me,i think i will immediately get mad,but the anger will not last long,i know i am sensible person,i will forgive him,it is just an accident!the moment when being mad is just a kind of emotion vent.

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3. earnonlinenow (5)   3 months ago

No one without mistake that is somehow costly, but life continues.you have damage or destroy someone's property once or twice before.If not to anybody but to God,we all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.if God could forgive us our sins by giving us Jesus Christ as a ransom definitely we must give forgive other no matter the wrong they done to us.let us have human feeling in any thing we are doing.think that nobody above mistake so far we are human only God is perfect.so,forgive and foirget is the key any wrong someone might done to you.life is beautiful and short

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4. myLot reputation of 80/100. notlistening2 (3944)   ranked 7,908 out of 29,024 in life   3 months ago

If someone come to my apartment and break something valuable,sad I would get angry with themangry and I would not let them come to my house again, because I would feel they don't know how to act when them come to someones home. angry

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. skywolfcel (5168)   ranked 1,603 out of 29,024 in life   3 months ago

if any precious things broke i might shocked and upset.

if it is a kid i might forgive but if that is older maybe im not going to say something and pretending it is okay because it is not.

if you mean if the person are close to me i have to say its ok no i wont they will really know how important object that they broke and if they offer mony no i wont take it and why it is not the money but how you value your things or stuff

but if they bought a replacement maybe i should take but i wont recomment

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6. myLot reputation of 87/100. addysmum (620)   ranked 777 out of 29,024 in life   3 months ago

Stuff is just stuff. It is temporary. If it breaks then it was the end of its temporary time with you. The human body only needs food and shelter to exist the rest is nothing more then our greed driven need to have more then others. An object that holds memories from a friend or family member is nothing more then an object the memory is in your mind not in the object. You do not need it to hold that person dear to you. So why would a person risk the loss of a friend or loved ones respect over and object that is worthless. Our real value is based on that which is in your heart not in your home. That is not to say that if my Les Beardsley (a potter who has transitioned to the next life leaving a large legacy and objects with great monetary value)bowl where to get broken I would not be disappointed but to make a fuss and demand replacement is not going to bring it back or him back. While the bowl is of value to a collector it is also the last thing Les gave me before his transition but it is the memories of a wonderful man that I hold dear. So for me a moment of disappointment for the loss of an object holds much less value then the memory of the person who gave it to me and the value of the person who broke it. This exact topic is something that my Grandmother is struggling with. She has had to leave her home of 45 years as she cannot care for herself and it anymore. The memories in this home holds great value to her it is where my Grandfather transitioned, where they spent their last days together, where he built cabinetry and tables and chairs for her and us; but these are just memories and they are not physically part of the house they are in our minds and hearts. We are not losing him we are gaining Grandmas safety and the objects that can be removed and saved will be safely brought to those who can love them as much as they did. Someday those object may break but we will not loss his memories or the memories of Grandma or the memories of our lives in that house; those things will forever be in us.

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7. smart23 (81)   ranked 17,358 out of 29,024 in life   3 months ago

according to me i might get angry but i may not slap them or disallow them to come to my home again... as someone said nobody will do this with purpose.. it will definitely will be a mistake.... there will be different reaction when a stranger or someone who is close too....

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. moondancer (1222)   ranked 4,333 out of 29,024 in life   3 months ago

Everyone knows accidents will happen. When something important of mine gets broke or anything else, I have to take it in stride because whats done is done. I can't put it back together and me buying another one won't make the new one special if the other thing was a gift, or if it was something I've had for many years.
On the other hand if someone is goofing off and I have told them not to do that or something will get broken, then I get upset and make punishments, for family. I have never had someone else come in and brak something. Not that I remember right now.

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9. myLot reputation of 77/100. zandi458 (2283)   ranked 727 out of 29,024 in life   3 months ago

Accidents do happen right under our nose. I would just pretend that I am alright even if my heart is burning with fury. I am sure that person did not do it on purpose and as a host I will not create a scene that would cause embarrassment to my guest. Just take it as if nothing happens and it will pacify your heart a bit. What is done cannot be undone. Even to someone close I will just forgive and forget the whole incident. If that person is human enough he/she will get a replacement and that will be fine and acceptable otherwise treat it as 'bad luck'

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. checapricorn (8039)   ranked 355 out of 29,024 in life   3 months ago

I will be mad at first if it is very important to me and I treasure it so much and then will listen to their explanation and will tell them to be careful next time!
I will not expect a payment but I will for sure expect them not to do it again!
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