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myLot reputation of 72/100. Shilpi0202 (156)   ranked 375 out of 8,907 in love3 months ago

Do you think that one active and hard working person can lead a happy married life with a very lethargic and lazy person? These are two extremes that I think might get attracted towards each other. But as for marriage, I really have my doubts. What if the girl really works to make a good career, earns almost twice-thrice her boyfriend's salary and also does every bit to make him happy, running errands for him. She's even ready to manage his household quite well. And the guy is as unconcerned and unmoved as ever? Despite being really intelligent, neither does he have a good professional life nor personal. Will this love ever lose its spark? Or can they still strike a balance? Pls suggest.

 
 
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iskayz (1841) response was accepted on 9/4/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 39/100. avranesjr (779)   ranked 4,777 out of 8,907 in love   3 months ago

Short answer: No!


myLot reputation of 86/100. banadux (534)   ranked 6,563 out of 8,907 in love  3 months ago

I have to agree with the no. Everything I've read says that the biggest reason people break up is due to financial issues. Usually one person gets fed up with the other being too tight with the money (because they earned it and the other didn't) or the person making the money resents the other person (for never helping out with the bills and chores). If they are lazy in general I think that will just make matters worse.


myLot reputation of 39/100. avranesjr (779)   ranked 4,777 out of 8,907 in love  3 months ago

You've got it 100% exactly right, my friend. Very well said!

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2. orangcina (58)   ranked 3,916 out of 8,907 in love   3 months ago

The relationship will never work. No body can stand a lazy spouse, be it a man or woman. It takes two hands to clap. If only one person is doing all the thing, he or she will give sooner or later. That person will be exhausted with the relationship.


myLot reputation of 72/100. Shilpi0202 (156)   ranked 375 out of 8,907 in love  3 months ago

Thanks for your response. I think the same. But what if the guy keeps showing some signs of improvement off and on. And though the speed has been really slow, still in a span of five years, the man has been able to reach some stability of sorts in his professional life and personal life. And atleast says now that he wants to make amends in his attitude. Should the girl give him some more time or should she still move on?


orangcina (58)   ranked 3,916 out of 8,907 in love  3 months ago

It depends on his commitment, if he is really commited and show progress along the way, and if she love him very much, then by all means, he should be given a chance. The person should improve for love to grow.


myLot reputation of 86/100. banadux (534)   ranked 6,563 out of 8,907 in love  3 months ago

I agree 100%

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. rainmark (2149)   ranked 916 out of 8,907 in love   3 months ago

For me, it's impossible for the relationship to keep on balance and last forever,except if the girl is very inlove and martyr.As of now, it must be 50-50,sometimes loves disappear specially when problems arise between the couple.Of course the girl will get tired if the guy never do any steps to improve himself. He must work hard too coz lazy guy have no future to give to his family.cheers!

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 25 out of 8,907 in love   3 months ago

If you have to build a smooth and healthy relationship, laziness has no place. If any of the partners is lazy and does not help the other partner, irrespective of the gender, the same will definitely effect the relationship. Each of the partner is required to be active and agile to run the show smoothly. If the girl is working and managing house hold affairs, as well and the boy is showing laziness, the girl will get fed up one day, which may cause drift and break up in a relationship.
Very Good Post!thumbup


myLot reputation of 72/100. Shilpi0202 (156)   ranked 375 out of 8,907 in love  3 months ago

Thanks for your respsonse. Though it pains to see the negative response of one and all, I have to got to accept that this is the hard truth probably.


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 25 out of 8,907 in love  3 months ago

I may add here that my response was based on practical experiences in life. I doubt, if you would be able to find a 'happy' couple with two extreme kind of behaviour.

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5. Phillmore (28)   ranked 5,952 out of 8,907 in love   3 months ago

Yeah my Answer will be:No also

i have even tried it with a roommate, i worked everyday, while he was home doing hes things:

being lazy,gaming doing nothing, and it ended in me finding my own place...

so i couldnt imagine it in a relationship,Man the person who work the guy or girl must really fell burned out

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. iskayz (1841)   ranked 2,606 out of 8,907 in love   3 months ago

Hi there!happy

Well, they say oppossites attract and maybe that's why they gor married in the first place. I also believe that true love can change a person so, maybe the hubby will soon realize thats he's been so lazy and would finally decide to help the wifey.

In a relationship its always nice to expect something good from your partner and somewhat always give him/her another chance to change. That's what unique in a marriage.

Ciao!wink


myLot reputation of 72/100. Shilpi0202 (156)   ranked 375 out of 8,907 in love  3 months ago

Hey! Yours is the most soothing and re-affirming response that I've got so far. All this while I had been thinking that maybe I was wrong in thinking that things could someday turn towards betterment. Your confidence once again made me feel good and positive about things...:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. iskayz (1841)   ranked 2,606 out of 8,907 in love  3 months ago

happyI'm glad to be of help to you. Thanks!wink

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7. myLot reputation of 94/100. austere (1576)   ranked 91 out of 8,907 in love   3 months ago

happywell, if you ask me.. i dont think so.. dont you think it's unfair for the girl to be doing all the works and taking care of the responsibility without her partner's help.. there should be mutual help and understanding in the relationships. the guys should help their girls and the girls should help their guys.. it's not just about money, but house responsibilities and everything else in the relationship. it needs love, help and compromise if you ask me... thumbuphappy

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. aize003 (213)   ranked 294 out of 8,907 in love   3 months ago

hell no!!

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9. uncrushable (42)   ranked 5,950 out of 8,907 in love   3 months ago

Absolutely not. This girl I know, her boyfriend is the laziest, most worthless sack you could ever ask for. He's lived off her for at least four months now and hasn't even attempted to get a job. She works two and can barely support the two of them. And while she's away at both her jobs he does nothing but sit at home whining about how depressed he is or wasting gas by driving around aimlessly. He could even help her lower their rent if he'd just get off his butt and do a few hours worth of chores a week for their landlord but he doesn't even do that.

She broke up with him recently but he's still sponging off her. He had a job for a few days, actually. But he stopped going when he thought his boss was angry at him. (Still, even though said boss called to tell him he wasn't).

So. No.

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10. myLot reputation of 64/100. somekindofsuperstar (175)   ranked 2,583 out of 8,907 in love   3 months ago

no

but a hardworking boy and lazy girl could be....

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