The Soul Mate.

I am so happy that you have meet your soul mate some of us wonder around all our lives to find that person.

I believe in soulmates. I think everybody is destined to be with someone or be alone for the rest of their life. I believe that everything that happen in our life was already plan by God. Everything including how many kids we will have or who is the person we will spend the rest of our lives with. When i meet my hubby it was very unexpected and i never even thought that he is the right guy for me.
I just knew that we are meant for each other when i started to fall in love with him and inspite of all the problems and difficulties we have to go through in our relationship we are still together... Something that is rare to happen coz usually when things goes wrong it always end up in a break up before with my past relationships. So everything that happen on us is not plan nor expected. About having two soulmates i dont think that is possible. You can only be with one person and that is the person you will spend the rest of your life with.
Usually at first we are confuse with two people we are both interested to get to know well but you will always will end up with one choice.Sometimes we made the wrong decision but as we keep on going on life there is one person that really makes us decide to settle down and spend each moment with that person. And that person is considered to be your soulmate.

not sure only time will tell if i have chosen correctly. i do love him but soul mate I'm not sure. I know I have meet my soul mate friend though. Thank you for your descriptions it was very informative and interesting. Have a nice one.

Glad to be of some help! Well, take care and if you had chosen him, then have no doubts about it, but to treasure and love him with all your heart. I wish you all the best in the road to love and well also all the best in whatever you decide in your life!

dear pike darling sould mates can be the opposite of you hun it's to me a feeling of utter completeness like what would a yin be without its yang?:) Maybe at 2 something in the morning I have poorly worded my discussion.. LOL!! But you have been with your wife for 22 yrs can you imagine being with any other. Love and hugs to you my dear sweet pike.

She says that I am her charity work Bella. She married me to protect other women!! But she lets me come and play here, so she's not a bad old thing. Whoops, less of the "old" apparently!

LOL!! Charity work eh.. I can help her with that. LOL!!:)

Sorry it's late really late and I'm in a playful mood tonight.

She says that I am her charity work Bella. She married me to protect other women!!

ROFLMFAO omg Sir Fishy that is TOO FUNNY!!

Thank you for your description of it and the definition .. I believe I have found one of my soul mates as a person above stated that you have a love and a friend soul mate. I have a friend whom I gone through alot with and we have remianed friends non the less. we are best friends and are very close.

That is such a great perspective to have about them and I have to agree I do think that there has to more than one soul mate out there and one that is intimate.

you might but you also might never meet that sould mate. It's a matter of luck and chance I think hun. I know what you mean people think hey he's a nice guy but behind the scenes they don't see who he truly is or how he truly is. That was the same with my ex and me.

Yeah, back in the beginning, I and he both thought we had found our soul mates, I beleive. But now, with all the water under the bridge, I don't know for sure.

However, I will say, that it is one of the reasons that I stay with him, even after all the sh!t we have been through. It was that initial 'connection' that we felt that is part of the glue that keeps us together. I thought we complimented each other. We made a good team. We wanted the same things out of life, wanted the same future. And I have been working tirelessly towards it, even if he balked at it sometimes. I ploughed through. I have been the driving force in this relationship. He fights it sometimes, but he always gives in because he knows I DO WANT the same things he wants in the end.

Everyone else that looks on from afar, thinks that we still do compliment each other and we are soul mates. So maybe I can't see the forest for the trees. I'm too mired in work and arguments to see what a good life we have sometimes.

It makes sense hun and I understand what you mean. Sometimes people are only meant to be in our life for a season or so. Sometimes they stay longer sometimes they stay for only a short while. but maybe just maybe we are blessed with more than one .. LOL!! I know i have a friend that is my soul mate as a friend and I couldn't imagine my life with out him in it and the same goes for him he can't picture his life with out me.

I am so happy bella that you have Him and He you..that is the way it should be...some poor souls are not so lucky. xoxoox Blessings on you and he. Hugs

I understand what you're saying hun. But there has to be someone for you possible multiple soul mates that way if you reincarnate as a bird you find anothor of your soul mates in that species. Just a thought.

Sorry I beg to differ I believe that their are soul mates based on the instance that they can be friends or lovers. I have a friend who is in my life and the part of my life that he is im he makes it whole. LOL! my S/O completes my heart. we might have more than one person that is part of being that soul mate. Here is the think a soul mate isn't there to feed you .. They are there to be part of you a piece of the puzzle or a completion of it some people when they find their soulmate it might be one person their lover and they complete them but then there might be another person who completes them as a friend and confident and in that part of their life while the lover or S/O is there other significant peice of completion/soul mate and then the puzzle is complete. Hence there being the need of more than one sould mate and being able to have more than one soul mate. LOL!!!

I believe I have found one of my soul mates My best friend he is my sould mate as a friend. LOL! we just are to peas in a pod so to speak. LOL!!! we can't imagine life with out the other. LOL!! I wonder how many time me and him have played this out?

when yer ready to remember.. you will

I wonder if there is a way to catalist it?

there usually is.. only trouble is that you never know exactly what will trigger it. a place, a person.. even an object, can suddenly spark a memory and itll flow like water without any effort at all. but something most fail to think about when seeking those pasts.. is that if youve lived before, you have also died before.. and in remembering the life, you will also remember the death. and death is never pleasant. you need to be prepared for the fallout.

Yep I guess if I want to know about one I"m going to have to deal with the other. Not sure if I'm ready to experience the death part. LOL!!

youuuu should come yap with me in the tavern*nod nod*

I would but I'm leaving right now to take my gram to get her blood work and shopping down. LOL!! when I get back I'll jump into the room KK.; squishes Tessah; I promise I'll jump on when I get back KK.

have fun with yer gram we can play catch-up later*squishes back*