falling out of love...what's the reason why??

Wow! I am going through this very thing as we speak... I will keep an eye on this discussion, as I am sure many of the opinions will help me immensely!

Nice topic!

I believe that sometimes people would stop falling in love each other, but it doesn't meant that they are stop loving each other. Falling out love, you mean that you are stop falling in love, or you stop loving the person?

Stop falling in love but still love them means that you still want them around, still feeling the possession, feeling the good things about them and still want to live with them. You just lost the romance, you can get easily falling in love again. The reason is maybe, because you feel bored with the same old style of loving, bored with the situation or maybe bored because you doesn't have any fight at all

But when you stop loving them... well.. it's time to say goodbye. Because you are no longer love them anymore, you are no longer bored but you are fed up with things about them. Too many things that opposite from what you want, and you can't take it anymore. You stop feeling the thrill and all you want to do is keep them away from you.

Well, basically speaking with the fact I really don't know the answer.. Anyways,I'll just answer it base on my observations. I can see that the reasons why people fall out of love to their husband/wife, boy/girlfriend it is because they met someone new, someone they though they will be more happy if they were together, or they met their previous love and realize that they are still in love to that person.. Then they forgot that there is someone who will be hurt.. Sometimes, love is unfair because it just keep on beating to another person even they have already in the relationship.. Sometimes, both partner have a problem like they don't understand each other they always quarrel and making things difficult even though it can be possible to fix the fight.. The only problem that I can see is they don't know how to listen.. They always want to express their feelings without thinking if that is really what they feel or it is just one of the crazy stuff that's on their mind.. Both of them don't listen they always talked and never think what their partner will feel.. So, I guess it is not because they fall out of love but because they just hate their partner, they just don't want to hear any painful words and most of all they are already tired to have another fight..

Again, this is just what are my observations to those couple who separate their own ways just because they though they fall out of love to their partner.. Happy posting..

it varies with a lot of reason...people may fall out of love when things aren't working out fine...when they always argue and cannot seem to find one thing to be compatible enough together..when one cheats with another and when one cannot appreciate the other...when one is not doing its role/part and when one is just so insensitive with what's going on...when one is no longer happy and when one finds another to give love with..i cannot dictate all the reasons but i know for sure that there are millions of reasons why people fall out of love...

couse of many reasons... like... if once knows strange n different things of there partner which they dont no gefore....

Some people get tired of being with the same person, because they get to be so familiar with each other, and it can become boring - a relationship needs to be worked on and kept alive, fresh and exciting for it to be sustainable.
I have been married for 43 years to the same wonderful man, and I must admit, we struggled through some of the early years, especially before we had our kids.
We had to learn to keep life exciting - keep in touch with friends we had before we were married (believe me, you will need them), and one important thing - have some time apart from each other! I need my own space apart from my husband, so I see my friends during the week without my hubby, and he does the same but not as often as I do.
We will still do something out of the ordinary for each other from time to time, so we don't often get bored. Life is too busy anyway, with grown children and now grandchildren!

Hi archerzbaby! It is a risk to fall in love and for some it is difficult to maintain a relationship. I think people fall out of love when they have outgrown each other, or when they are being taken for granted, or when they see that the person they fall in love before with is not the same person who is in the relationship, or maybe, they found someone else who really is right for them in their opinion. Just my two cents!
Take care always..God Bless!