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myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake3 months ago

I can't get it into my head why so many women get so annoyed when men don't "put-the-seat-down" after they've been for a pee glare

It's not difficult to put it back down yourself, is it? confused

He didn't do it on purpose; he just forgot, or couldn't be bothered. If I was a man, I wouldn't bother. Why bother?

To prove how little it matters, here's a pic of me and Andrew not caring about toilet seats...

So, do you men folk put the seat down or not and why, oh why, do loads of women get well riled about it??!

 
 
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Irishfrndly65 (3482) response was accepted on 9/11/2008.
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tags:  toilet, pee, toilet seats, men and women, waste time
 
1. myLot reputation of 93/100. gemini_rose (9073)   ranked 94 out of 802 in cake   3 months ago

It does not actually bother me that the seat is left up at all, it only takes a second after all to put it down. What I do get annoyed about is when I go in there in a rush and do not notice whether it is up or down and sit straight down without checking and end up stuck down the u bend with my legs waving in the air. That is what annoys me!!


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

lolrasp

I know exactly what you mean! lol


myLot reputation of 80/100. guybrush (2236)   ranked 577 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Hahahaaha - my bum's far too big to get stuck down the u-bend!


gilmher (3)   ranked 798 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

wtf... i agree with you..


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

lolrasplol

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2. myLot reputation of 77/100. ZephyrSun (2114)   ranked 575 out of 802 in cake   3 months ago

I don't care either way, living in a house for 4 males I have learned over the years to look before you leap lol The toilet seat is the least of my concern lol I am much more concerned about the how clean the room is


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Haha lol

Well, my Andrew's a clean freak so our house is eerily clean... ninja

lol


myLot reputation of 77/100. ZephyrSun (2114)   ranked 575 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Oh? May I borrow him? I have a lot of cleaning that I could use some help with With 5 people 1 dog 2 kittens and a rabbit there's always something to clean lol


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

I think that'd finish him off! lol


myLot reputation of 77/100. ZephyrSun (2114)   ranked 575 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

lol


gilmher (3)   ranked 798 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

[em]drool

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. Irishfrndly65 (3482)   ranked 490 out of 802 in cake   3 months ago

I agree. When we first got married, just me and my man in the house, he said, "I will leave it down for YOU, if YOU will leave it UP for ME!" Hmmm his logic was inescapeable, so we never had any problems. Now, with my wee son, I am outnumbered. Although I must note that MY man puts BOTH the lid and the cover back down each time he is in there and has taught THAT to our wee son. LOL! I told y'all he was fastidious. wink

And since I answered the other discussion first. I have seen the pic and I only have to say, "WHAT PRINGLES, thanks for offering to share....NOT!"


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

lol

If I could send you Interweb-Pringles, Irish, I surely would! rasp


myLot reputation of 97/100. Irishfrndly65 (3482)   ranked 490 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Hey virtual pringles would be much better for weight control. Now there's a thought, can someone make a pill that tastes like your favorite junk food but without the fat and calories........nah.....it would probably cause a growth on the frontal lobe that affected your balance or something. We'd know who was indulging by their funny gaits then, instead of their heavy weights!


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Sorry to wate your time just for you to look at this but...

lollollol


myLot reputation of 97/100. Irishfrndly65 (3482)   ranked 490 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

You rarely waste my time my little british friendy!


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Glad to hear it! rolleyes

lol


myLot reputation of 97/100. Irishfrndly65 (3482)   ranked 490 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

thanks for BR!


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

WOOP!!!!!

lol

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4. myLot reputation of 61/100. udischas84 (180)   ranked 409 out of 802 in cake   3 months ago

Personally, I don't see the big deal either. If it's up, I have arms, I can put it down myself. The only thing that I will say, is if he goes messy and then leaves it up and we have guests, then it's all over the seat when the next person comes in. As long as he cleans up after himself, I could care less. But putting yourself into the position of the guest. I know we all hate it when we go into a movie theatre or restaurant restroom and the seat is wet. As long as it's clean, who cares if it's up or down.


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

I've found that a lot of men don't understand how we "squat" over toilets, when they're dirty but you have to go; apparently it really hurts their legs lol

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. eve301345 (347)   ranked 742 out of 802 in cake   3 months ago

Why do woman care? First of all its hygiene. Would you like other people pee get into your hand by putting the toilet set down because somebody else's could not care of what they do? It is pretty annoying for me actually because it is my attitude and other should be the same to put things in the right way. Well, that my opinion, everybody else's got deferent believes.

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myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Cheers Eve thumbup

So, do you put the toilet seat back up when you're finished, so the men don't have to touch the dirty seat? rolleyes

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6. myLot reputation of 80/100. guybrush (2236)   ranked 577 out of 802 in cake   3 months ago

Well, I'm a woman and I prefer the seat up! Don't know why - I just like the clean look of the bowl without the seat ring on it. I have no idea why women make such a fuss - it's a non-event when men do much worse things. My husband leaves a trail of crisps and peanuts all over the house ... that's far more annoying to clean up than worrying about a toilet seat!


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Maybe it's so he can find his way back round the house?

lolrasp

lol


myLot reputation of 80/100. guybrush (2236)   ranked 577 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Hahahaaha - I hadn't thought of that, but you're probably right!


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

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7. myLot reputation of 75/100. myklj999 (6642)   ranked 743 out of 802 in cake   3 months ago

Cool picture!!!lol

Actually, I put the lid down when I'm done...that way I ain't the only one that has to lift anything to piss.


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

I know - we always forget to take our invisibility cloaks off for photos rolleyes

I hear ya - although I wish I could wee standing up!

Apparently some women can, but I can't. I tried in a pub toilet (it definitely was a good idea at the time) and sincerely hope I never try it again whistle

rasp

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8. myLot reputation of 87/100. jfilips (234)   ranked 748 out of 802 in cake   3 months ago

uh ive never got that problem O.o;But if that where to happen to me:
I don't think women should be mad because of it i mean, i agree with you they just need to move their hand a bit. Hell i even think that they peeing wastes more energy than raising their hands and putting the seat down=p


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Glad you agree thumbup and, for some reason, I love your name!

J Filips... I've heard it before, but where... glare

Anyway, thanks for responding! happy

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (3551)   ranked 15 out of 802 in cake   3 months ago

When you hit 50 and you have to run to the toilet and barely get your pants down in time, we'll talk. Also, some men wee wee all over the back of the seat, so now you also have to touch the thing without gloves.


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Oh, Edge, I have thae bladder of a 50-year-old, believe me!

A few weeks ago, I even thought I was pregnant because I was going to the toilet so much and could literally only just get there in time blush

It's still happening, but I found out it's cos I have a very weak bladder and there's nothing the doctor will do about it because it's not bad enough, apparently... confused

I tell you, it bloody is!!! angry


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (3551)   ranked 15 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Tell him you want to learn the exercises for strenghtening the bladder. Try those. If after awhile that doesn't work, then tell him you need to go to physical therapy to target the muscles better.

I had physical therapy for it and it worked much better for awhile. I would stand up and have to go to the bathroom right away. That's a muscle incontenance.

I also used to sneeze and go to the bathroom in my pants, that is called stress incontenance. I had an operations to put some support below it so sudden sneezes don't do that, that operation is starting to wear off, I think the support may have stretched. Did it in 2001 and with my allergies coughing and sneezing, I bet it has.

So read up on it. Learn about it and talk to your Doctor about it. The more you know, the better you can talk to him and the better he should respond and help you. If he does not respond to your needs, get another, better Doctor.


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Thanks Edge! happy

I'll definitiely do that; this is the same doctor who ushered me out of his room when I went in with back problems (it started six months ago and has got worse since, sometimes I can't stand on my right leg at all - I've looked it up and it seems it's my sciatic nerve), saying there was nothing he could do angry

Thankyou...

You're becoming a good friend here! thumbup


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (3551)   ranked 15 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

I'm on a traction table for sciatic nerve. It takes the pressure off. I think you need a new Doctor. Mine never says there is nothing he can do, if I ever hear that out of his mouth, terminal cancer will be the next thing out.

OK, you can't do anything who can? PT, Chiropractor? Don't accept that crap from him (or her).

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10. myLot reputation of 94/100. capirani (735)   ranked 732 out of 802 in cake   3 months ago

I think it is nasty leaving it up and if a boy is trained properly, it wouldn't be an issue once he is a grown man. It is polite, consciencious, considerate. I think it is just laziness if they don't put it down. And yes it makes a great deal of difference if you tend to use the bathroom without turning on the light if you get up in the night. Some people do that because the light wakes them up more. I think if the men ended up accidently sitting on the toilet when the seat was not put down often enough, they might just think a little more of the other person. In some families, they want the lid down too. And in families with bigger dogs and/or small children, it is very wise to put both the seat and lid down. Children have been known to drown in toilets going after toys they have dropped in the water.


myLot reputation of 94/100. capirani (735)   ranked 732 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Oh, and I have to ask....isn't this the cake category??? LOL Not a very appetizing topic. Where is the picture you mentioned? All I see is the picture of the cake.


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Ok, valid point; so do you put the seat back up for the men? Is that not "polite, consciencious, considerate"...?

As for the topic and the picture; I couldn't find a toilet topic and the photo didn't upload for some reason rolleyes

Here it is!

 

myLot reputation of 94/100. capirani (735)   ranked 732 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

No, I never put the seat back up for the men. I think it is just nasty as I said before. Men have a choice to either sit or stand. I know some men who do sit rather than stand. I do not feel it is inconsiderate to not put it back up for the men.


myLot reputation of 94/100. capirani (735)   ranked 732 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

You can always start a new topic if you can't find one that fits.


myLot reputation of 89/100. louise99 (1736)   ranked 23 out of 802 in cake  3 months ago

Nah; I'll stick with the cake...

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