When it rains it Pours.

I think life is like a whole lot of cycles, ups and downs, good and bad and ying yang, and I think probably thats the way it is supposed to be, I think sometimes we humans need a few downs to make us appreciate the ups...I try to talk myself into believing tomorrow is another day and has got to be better.

yup thats true in happens over here in the U.K as well, first theres little showers then it pisses it down, happy mylotting friends!

when troubles come, they come not single spies.. but in batallions~William Shakespeare~

yer not the only one with a torrential downpour of "bad" this past month, as you well know. how do i deal? i attempt to weather it.. brace against it.. keep my footing. but like you said it isnt just one thing.. or even two things.. but a constant stream of nonstop bu||sh|t blindsiding you from all directions until yer legs are knocked out from under you and yer on yer knees goin WTF!?! at that point, i usually crawl off someplace dark and quiet and lick my wounds for awhile. think im done with the wound licking.. finding my footing again.. and will soon once again grace the world with my enigmatic presence

Hey bella! Good question and I wish I knew the answer because
at this moment I'm having just that very same problem and I
don't know what to do about it. The problems are mostly in
my mind but are manifesting to my everyday life. Don't
misunderstand, they are very real problems. They are just
made worse by me thinking about them and not really being
able to do anything about them due to cirmcumstances that
are beyond my control. They are things that I don't want
to happen and deal with that I have no choice about. In
other words they are going to happen no matter what I
do about them. Some because they need to happen, some because
they have to happen. I know it sounds confusing, but as you
said when it rains it does pour and right now it's pouring
in my life and I wish the sun would hurry up and come out
and wash away all the rain.

I usually take things head on, but if that doesn't work, I walk away.

I'm in the bomb shelter right now, BUT I realized that I had tons of work to do here, so I'm keeping quite busy getting all the necessary things done.

I think everyone else is there, too. Just waiting for the dust to settle, I imagine.

Hi bella
There was a time when I would deal with everything head on, full force, and zooming around trying to solve my probs and everyone elses too..that is what got me very very burned out and sick...to the point that now, I cannot do it anymore, and even if I could, I would not..this is not to say that I can problem solve, I just take it in much slower steps and relax and calm my mind before attempting to do so. I also try to pick my battles more carefully according to importance. xoxoxoo Hugs