Have you heart someone already?

My boyfriend can't forget the time when I asked him to leave me bec. he doesn't have time for me.WE are living in one roof,we are live-in partners and I longed for his time...he got so busy when he got promoted as a supervisor and we have this time when we were together and he left me and forgotten that I was with him...I guess he has a truckload of officework in his mind and forgot that we were together.So I asked for a "cool-off" so that he can concentrate on his job and for me to think if I still want our situation then.He got hurt.Until now even if we are joking around he would tell me that I wanted to be away from him and that I can live without him.So I guess that time when I asked for a cool-off it's already embedded in his mind and he can't forget it.I said sorry for not understanding that time.Now we are just waiting for us to celebrate our 2nd year anniversary of being together and so far...we are loving each day that we are together.

Hurting someone is a chain reaction...when you hurt someone, you tend to hurt yourself and that someone being hurt will hurt someone else in return. I've had my share of being hurt and hurting someone. It's not nice. I felt bad about hurting someone and I felt bad about being hurt too. But I guess that's the way how the world goes...and some people say you won't learn or be strong if you don't get hurt or if we don't hurt someone. Sometimes I do agree but most often times I don't because hatred and violence can result to this.

I have hurt someone before didnt mean to do it but i did. I felt guilty but i had to do what i had to do. Things jsut wasnt working out so i had to end it. Of course i got the blame but it was in the best interest that i did it. We are still however friends but he still throws it in my face from time to time.