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myLot reputation of 88/100. SaintAnne (1175)   ranked 1,202 out of 28,991 in life2 months ago

I just got back from a busy morning. I applied to two agencies today and one of them had me answer a supplemental questionnaire asking what each of these several values mean to me:

trustworthiness, responsibility, respect, caring, fairness and citizenship

The hardest one for me to define, in my own words, was Citizenship. But I was happy with the answers I gave them.

I'm curious as to what these (all or at least one) values mean to you. If you were to define them in your own words, what would you write down? Please, no rushing to the dictionary!


 
 
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drannhh (5509) response was accepted on 10/8/2008.
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tags:  values, life, job hunt, job
 
1. myLot reputation of 93/100. drannhh (5509)   ranked 920 out of 28,991 in life   2 months ago

Pretty easy, as the first five listed there make up the sixth.
To me, good citizenship means being trustworthy and responsible, showing respect for those who deserve it, being fair and acting in a caring way.


Here are the others in my own words:

1 - Trustworthiness is acting in such a manner that one places honesty above self-gain or self-aggrandizement.

2 - Responsibility means owning up to what needs to be done and doing it when and where it needs to be done and without consideration for what other people might say or think.

3 - Respect means to avoid harming other people (or things) in word or deed except where harming them is in the great good of others collectively such as in calling someone who steals a thief or someone who lies a liar.

4 - Caring is stopping to think about the other person's position and acting responsibly toward it.

5 - Fairness is making decisions and acting on them without prejudice and without even the appearance of a conflict of interest.


myLot reputation of 88/100. SaintAnne (1175)   ranked 1,202 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

Now I don't feel too good about my answers! happy

I'm still in awe right now, drannhh. You really have a way with words!


myLot reputation of 93/100. drannhh (5509)   ranked 920 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

Your questions were good and I just hope not to have scared others away from commenting! It will be most interesting to see how other people reply.


myLot reputation of 88/100. SaintAnne (1175)   ranked 1,202 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

drannhh, your post is intimidatingly good! Let's just hope that instead of scaring other myLotters, it will encourage them to try and provide answers of the same caliber or close to it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Opal26 (3545)   ranked 229 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

I'm skerred now drannhh! You are really good!
I want to erase my answers and do over!


myLot reputation of 88/100. SaintAnne (1175)   ranked 1,202 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

Opal, you can't erase a good answer!

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. zigzagbuddha (1551)   ranked 1,385 out of 28,991 in life   2 months ago

Well, to be honest (hehehe) none of those words are any that I assign much value to, and if a company that I was applying at thrust that kind of a 'supplemental questionnaire' on me while I was there I most likely would have said, "ummm, let me get back to you on this" and I would have made a beeline out the door. I do not want to work with anyone who is so friggin serious as all that!!!

Once I was applying for a job at the Outback restaurant. I did not want to wait tables anymore, but my whole family had been very supportive of me for a long time while I looked for something that I would be happier doing, and it had been months and I was feeling desperate. The restaurant was right by my house and the hours were suitable to me so I figured it wouldn't hurt to take that job.

So, I filled out the app and was called in for an interview. I hit it off amazingly well with the interviewer... he was very excited because he felt I was exactly what they were looking for. After the interview was over there was one final step in the hiring process, which was a sort of 'supplemental questionnaire', hehehe. There were a bunch of questions about Australia that they asked!!! The only thing I knew about Australia was that that is where Crocodile Dundee is from! Anyway I winged it and got through with flying colors actually, I only got 3 wrong... and because of that THEY DID NOT HIRE ME!!!!!

I couldn't phucking believe it! I had the experience, the flexibility, the personality, the maturity, everything that they wanted and they did not hire me because of that stupid test on Australia!!!!

Then the next day I saw an ad in a little local type newspaper for someone to take care of exotic plants. They paid great and did not require any experience. I called them up immediately and was practically hired over the telephone! I had that job for the next few years, and loved almost every minute of it. Thank god for that stupid test, because if I had gotten that job I would no longer have been checking the paper and would have missed out on one of my most favorite jobs I ever had! And been stuck doing something that I hated!!!


myLot reputation of 93/100. drannhh (5509)   ranked 920 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

rfl, you see, that test helped both you and the restaurant, but most of all, it helped the plant people who apparently got just the kind of person they wanted and needed---YOU!


myLot reputation of 88/100. SaintAnne (1175)   ranked 1,202 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

"Let's go Outback tonight... life will still be there tomorrow." Whenever I hear that commercial on TV, the jingle gets stuck in my head. Hmmm, when I get the chance to go have steak at this restaurant again, maybe I will ask the server questions about Australia and see how much he/she knows. I have a similar story of something much better coming along after not being hired. A little more than 6 years ago, when I was still in school, I applied to Michael's for an easy job. They have this personality multiple choice test that I took and I did NOT pass it. The person who administered the test even recommended that I try to come up with the most moderate answer and I did just that and I failed. Ahahaha! That made me doubt my potential right then. Imagine being rejected by Michael's!!! Anyway, after that, a friend suggested I work at the local movie theater. I got in and there I met Boyfriend. I guess we both hold evidence of truth in the saying "Every cloud has a silver lining." Or "when one door closes, the gate to a mansion opens." Something like that.

On a more serious note, the agency I applied to is a nonprofit organization that deals with emotionally disturbed adolescents so the very serious supplemental questionnaire was called for.


myLot reputation of 84/100. zigzagbuddha (1551)   ranked 1,385 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

Hahaha....let me know how she (or he) does! I wish I could remember some of the questions they had on the test for you to ask them!

Michael's... the art supply store? Hehehehe, I figured with the kind of people they had working there for sure I would get hired! But no go, hehehe, so if we are on the same page here, yes, I know the feeling of being rejected by Michael's!!! w00t lol What a friggin' relief it was when I got the plant lady job that was SOOOO perfect for me. That's a great story about meeting your bf instead of working there!!

And I'll tell you something... I was an emotionally disturbed adolescent and all those serious adults trying to 'fix' me with their serious values and consideration of the 'problem' NEVER helped me one little bit!!! In fact it made me more disturbed!!! What I needed was unconditional love, not sympathy and a condescending 'I understand' act - when it was plain to see they did NOT understand! It was obvious they were simply trying to make me behave the way they thought I should be behaving and to be just like them. No thanks.


myLot reputation of 88/100. SaintAnne (1175)   ranked 1,202 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

Hello zig. I am sorry to hear that your experience with these adults isn't what you needed/wanted growing up. The agency I applied to has individuals that has been with them for several years and some of them even come back to help the program out. I can understand that a lot of adults can be condescending towards kids. From what I know, staff of these kinds of programs are trained to set a certain boundary between them and the kids. If a child gets too attached to a staff member and vice-versa, if the staff ends up leaving that job, that might become another bad impact on the child's life.

It took me years to set foot on Michael's again, yes, it is that art supply store. Last month, I went there with a friend and I discovered their aisle of baking and bakeware goodies. I thought I went to heaven!

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. Opal26 (3545)   ranked 229 out of 28,991 in life   2 months ago

Ok, let's see now~trustworthiness means that I am able to
keep all things that I see and hear confidential. I wiil
not discuss anything with anyone unless it is one of my
superiors. responsibility~ I will do what is expected of
me and be on time and will take the work that I am to do
with the utmost seriousness and timeliness. respect~ I
will respect others as I do myself and be open and honest
and willing to make sure that I do not treat in a
dishonorable way. caring~ I will show that I am truly
interested in working together in harmony with my fellow
co-workers and showing them that I care about my work
ethics and how it will help them make their jobs easier.
fairness~ I will always try to be fair to people and not
judge anyone without knowing what is involved in a situation.
citizenship~ I am a citizen of the United States of America
and I take this oath very seriously. I was born in the USA
and am am true to my Country and believe in what it stands
for the right to remain free and live in peace and harmony.
Did I pass the test? What grade did I get? It felt like
Social Studies all over again!


myLot reputation of 93/100. drannhh (5509)   ranked 920 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

(((Opal))) I would give you an A!!!


myLot reputation of 88/100. SaintAnne (1175)   ranked 1,202 out of 28,991 in life  2 months ago

You pass the test with flying colors, Opal! I agree with drannhh, you get an A. Besides, I don't think I'm in any position to decide which definition is right or wrong. I think these values do mean differently to each of us.

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