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myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships2 months ago

why we must shy to say "i love you" to some we love in front of our friends or her friends?leave your comments.thank you!

 
 
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glords (831) response was accepted on 10/27/2008.
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tags:  love, mature content, shy, hesitation, true love
 
1. myLot reputation of 84/100. srikool (463)   ranked 2,079 out of 18,953 in relationships   2 months ago

ha ha..good question..why we have to shy to say that..that is love..that is it power..love is a wonderful feeling..whiel experssing it..we are having some hesitation and shy..that is a nature one to all..he or she may reject our love..all may laugh for our love with someone..we would not the ideal match to that person..like that..our mond having number of thinking because of these we feel shy to say our to someone..i think this may be a reason..lets see the others reply to you..have a nice time in mylot


myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

too scared to admit something true?why?we shouldnt hide our true feeling,to express anger to someone we hate people see as normal,yet it's "must" situation,even though in front of public.but why not express your love in front of your friend?maybe yeah you are right,it's the power of love.the feeling of scared to be rejected maybe the reason why people dont want to tell or say 'i love you'...is it scared or shy?which one you preferred?

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2. myLot reputation of 66/100. Shar1979 (2322)   ranked 4,078 out of 18,953 in relationships   2 months ago

I never was shy and still am not shy to say I love you to my husband. even my previous relationships. I am very showy with my feelings toward my partner. I was never afraid to say or make him feel that i am so in love with him


myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

this is the spirit that we want!good shar1979.why must be shy?love is something we should proud of.your husband must be greatful to have you as your wife.sometimes by saying "i love you" makes someone being be appreciated.am i right?


myLot reputation of 66/100. Shar1979 (2322)   ranked 4,078 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

yep. every little things are very much appreciated especially if you tell your partner that you love him at least once a day would mean so much. you can never tell what can happen so it's best to make sure you tell your partner that you love him/her so much for you may never say it again


myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

yeah it's true and i agree wtih you.we will never know what will happen in the future.at least if something happen, you already tell how much you love him/ her

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. eshaan (1069)   ranked 391 out of 18,953 in relationships   2 months ago

Never be late or the opportunity is lost... lol, meybe there will be someone else in ur place and then there is nothing for u except regreting, better u say it, if it is accepted then good or else forget, maybe u r lucky next time. sad


myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

heehehe.i agree "never be late or the oppurtinity is lost"...but the lost is something we forget when we are facing someone we love,yet in front of our or her friends.we get SHY~.easy to say but hard to do.have you experienced such situation?

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4. myLot reputation of 76/100. bournecaindelta (1487)   ranked 3,400 out of 18,953 in relationships   2 months ago

I seriously doubt that shyness man. I think it's got more to do with fear of rejection and the hurt that will cause than shyness. I say this because I have seen the most straight forward and people who are completely regardless of what other people think, quiver when they had to confess their love. Now you cannot say that shyness is the reason because they are not shy in the first place . It's the apprehension and the hesitation and the fear of rejection that causes them to consider and reconsider their actions.

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myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

shyness man,or the other word is guy who being act on the safe side.maybe shy guy just dont think saying that magical word in front of others is the best move at the moment.maybe he had other plan in his mind.i dont know.human is complecated.confessing is very hard,esspecially when facing with possibility of getting negative feedback.what do you think?

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5. myLot reputation of 88/100. glords (831)   ranked 3,329 out of 18,953 in relationships   2 months ago

I think sometimes we worry that we will make other people feel awkward. Perhaps they will feel lonely because they do not have someone special in their own lives. Sometimes words of affection and intimacy are best saved for your time alone together.

However some people are more worried about themselves then others. These people feel embarrassed on their feelings. They either need some time to accept that they are in love, or to accept the person they are in love with. They just need to figure out if they are ashamed of love or ashamed of their lover. Either way they really need to work things out before they can move forward in their relationship.

I think if you are ashamed of your lover the relationship probably wont work. Deep down you don't respect them as much as you should. They deserve someone who loves them enough to overlook whatever it is that is embarrassing you.

Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.


myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

wow..new concept.shy to love someone or shy to the lover.hurm...cant really figure it out.maybe sometimes people tend to shy?confusing the feeling...but the main point is that,the feeling of shy to say the word is proof his in love?maybe this situation can also be applied to woman.everyone shy.it's just a mixture of feeling...shy to admit,shy of not knowing why should shy,and confuse just like you say,thanks!


myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

wow..new concept.shy to love someone or shy to the lover.hurm...cant really figure it out.maybe sometimes people tend to shy?confusing the feeling...but the main point is that,the feeling of shy to say the word is proof his in love?maybe this situation can also be applied to woman.everyone shy.it's just a mixture of feeling...shy to admit,shy of not knowing why should shy,and confuse just like you say,thanks!

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6. myLot reputation of 82/100. blog8withJ (115)   ranked 5,812 out of 18,953 in relationships   2 months ago

Not really! or shall I say not all people are very shy to speak those words in front of many audiences. If you think that the people will redicule you if you say those words that means you're not true to yourself and to your love one. Saying I love you in front of many others is very courageous. I admire people who said this to their love ones regardless of too many crowds.

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myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

yeah i admit there are some "brave" man accept the challenge.i am also admire such person.but the matter of being shy to say such word,i can see many times.and after his or her love not in front of him or her,then they usually says "why i'm being quite..just say the word...owh gosh!"...have you experience such situation?

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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. LadyMarissa (1212)   ranked 808 out of 18,953 in relationships   2 months ago

In my opinion...

If you're shy to say I love you in front of family or friends, then you do not truly love them.

When truly in love you do NOT care what others think or feel. And you surely don't worry about how stupid you're acting!!!

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myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

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8. myLot reputation of 89/100. Sheepie (2295)   ranked 2,183 out of 18,953 in relationships   2 months ago

Well, I think that it's just about making other people feel awkward, you want to make sure everyone is comfortable. I don't think I would care either way, but some people think it's a private business, I guess!


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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. n30wing (1335)   ranked 1,398 out of 18,953 in relationships   2 months ago

Sometimes it's very hard to say I Love you specially if the person doesn't know that we do love them. W4e are scared to loose them when they know that we love them. It's enough sometimes we better show it to our actions then by saying it. Are you scared being rejected or to reciprocate your love? Love is being blinded by our feelings and emotions, and sometimes theirs usually pain with it. And were scared also that the love we have for that person was not really meant to be, that it's enough to felt love then not having felt love alone. Have a nice day!


myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

nice explanation n30wing.maybe the mixture feeling of scared of losing loved ones when we said the word "i love you",and the feeling eager to tell how much you love her/him makes any person shy.the word is like a taboo.thanks for reply.happy mylotting...never shy to say thank you!

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. lovelyvelle (216)   ranked 2,232 out of 18,953 in relationships   2 months ago

For me, its a nice feeling if somebody told or will tell me, infront of other people that he loves me and how proud he is. But I never been a showy person, I don't even respond to the person who said or say that to me. I am just too shy and like to hide my feelings from the other people even if they are my own family. I just don't like showing my real feelings to somebody, and yes I had regrets about it when it was too late to tell them or him!


myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

women like you really makes men shy even more! that's the most main reason why i believe most guys shy to express their love.no doubts.hahahha.even though i agree women have the rights,but please give men a chance by showing appreciation for the courage to express their feelings...trust me,it's hard say!


myLot reputation of 95/100. lovelyvelle (216)   ranked 2,232 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

Yes, I think its hard to say, that why I didnt say it back. Hehehehe but you know my boyfriend now understands it, and we agreed not to say it in public just me and him together so its more romantic. But we are very proud to have each other people can see how happy we are together heheheh I hope it will last though! Wish me luck hehehe.


myLot reputation of 63/100. germany_fan (335)   ranked 7,114 out of 18,953 in relationships  2 months ago

all the best lovelyvelle...i'm sure your boyfriend love to you as much as you love to him.i heard sometimes,the word "i love you" shouldnt be said too much,as it will lost its magic..like when you say it,you feel like blood runs to your body so fast.but i think,just say the word with full of sincerity,same situation will happen,doesnt matter how many times you said.by the way,check my pictures,your username (lovelyvelle) is qutie familiar to a place in turkey...it's called lovely valley..there's a reason why they call that..check my pics

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