Have you eve been called a coward?

Nobody ever called me coward, and I am not one. I have never called other coward too, because i know sometimes, when we call others coward, we would bring us troubles. Nobody like to be called that way.

This is a pretty good discussion and I am sure there are a lot of people out there who do not believe in violence or do not believe in using violence to solve a problem accept for a last resort,and I am sure they have been called a coward by different people in their lives,and I am sure out of those people there are some who do not care what people say,and let what they say go in one ear,and out the other without giving it so much as a second thought,and then I am sure out of those there are people who believe that they are cowards because people call them a coward and let it bother them and second guess themselves,or they have low self esteem because of what others say or think of them,and then I am sure there are people who think violence solves everything,and they are the first to turn to violence to solve their problems,so they have never been called a coward,but they probably call people who do not jump up to fight a coward so I am sure that both types of people run into each other and that is why people call others a coward,which turns into a never ending cycle,and that is cool when you were growing up you always tried to avoid physical confrontation,but you remember having to defend yourself twice,and that sucks that you were called a coward,and that you were called a hermaphrodite and I am glad that the name calling stopped and that gained the respect you deserved,when I was growing up I was always called all kinds of names that I did not like and they sometimes caused me to have a low self esteem and to think badly of myself which I know is bad,and I grew up avoid confrontation because my parents raised me better than that,and I always avoided fights because I did not want to get in trouble,and I am sure I have been called a coward several times and at first it used to bother me because I wondered if I was a coward,and then after I made my friends made me feel better about myself,and made me actually want to stand up for myself,I still avoided fights,but I did not let it bother me when I was called a coward,I have never had to defend myself,and hopefully I never will have to,but I think I could if I had to because when I am mad I do not know what all I can do,and now that I am with my fiance she has showed me that I am a good person,and that I am worth something,so I do not let what others say about me bother me,because they are just stupid,and I know if someone was trying to hurt my fiance,I would fight to protect her,because I love her with all my heart and soul,and I would never let anyone or anything hurt her.

Anyone who called me that did not know me and would soon be rudely awakened from his daydream because I don't think I have ever backed away from any confrontation. These days I do not confront these conflicts with other people. I am more in conflict with myself when I have to choose a way to live my life. Sometimes we have to face our weaknesses and choose the brave way. Cheers!!