pro life

I did know a girl who had 3 by the time she was 18, so i asked her whe she said it is too easy to get done by easy i mean no questions asked just go in not feels easy.

I agree with you fully and your points of view and the way you observe the situation is most amazing. I for one think that you laid it out the best way for everyone as i feel exactly the way you do. I just have a harder time getting my words out as freely as you did!! Good Job!

i agree wiyh this

Like you I too had an abortion almost 25 years ago, and there is no doubt I will hurt deeply from that act for the rest of my life. To this day I will sit and cry for that baby that I "deleted". An act I have found almost immosible to forgive myself for. My heart also goes out to all who have been there as we have and are hurting, it don't go away. To all those who read this who may be considering an abortion, there are other optionsa that are much easier to live with, adoption helps both the baby and a couple who want a baby and cannot have one.

Pardon me but where did you ever get the the fact that " women naturally do not have the urge for procreation ." Of they have the natural urge for procreation . God made us this way .He chose for woman and men to populate the earth. God made us so that we would desire to procreate. Sex was God's idea, he meant to be with the confines of marriage .He meant to be for pleasure and for procreation . Unprotected sex generally means a baby will arrive. People need to not act so surprised!

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What a wonderful response. I am pro-choice. I don't think I could have an abortion, but I want to know that, I could if I felt the need to.

I feel for you, the topic starter, for your loss. It would be heart-breaking for anyone, who is waiting for their child, loving it and wanting to care for it, only to lose the baby. I have a friend, who awaited her baby, fixed his nursery, went into labor, and the baby was stillborn. It's been year's and she cries all the time.

There are plenty of children up for adoption, not enough families willing to adopt in the world, I don't know what part of world you are from, but if there ever was a situation where babies aren't there to be adopted then believe me you'd find some junkie willing to let you have hers for some money for drugs.

As for the question if my mom had aborted me or miscarried me I doubt it would make a difference to me, I'd just not be a part of the world's but I'd still be a part of the worlds plans. Motherhood is a responsibility one should take only if you are prepared to treat the child as a divine blessing and honour it as God's gift.

Also there would be far less strife in the world if all the children in the world had grown up in families where they were loved and cherished. Had only those people who would've loved their children given birth to children we wouldn't be having so much crime, definitely no psychopaths or serial killers and abusers in the world.

People would still kill others, it is simply human nature. In the United States, adoption is very expensive and is hard for many families who want to do it but can't. There are waiting lists and a lot of competition in the US to adopt a child, with tons of parents who would be willing to give them tons of love and care. No matter how good you raise a child, they will make their own choices, and unfortunately, you can't do anything about it as a parent. All you can do is hope you taught them well and it stuck on them. If babies are God's gift, why do you feel it is alright to kill them?

I am not saying there won't be any violence in the world, all I'm trying to point out is that there would be far less violence in the world if all children grew up in happier homes.

As regards to babies being the gift of God, yes, I Believe that They are God's Blessings; and that, precisely is what I'm saying, only those who so strongly and passionately consider babies to be a Blessing should give birth. Because when you feel so strongly and positively towards your child you are going to do everything in your power to care for its happiness.

And anyone who doesn't feel so strongly or anyone who can treat abortion as birth control definitely are better off going ahead with it than not caring for their own baby.

I understand what you are saying and respect your opinion of course, and I am sure both of us could not convince each other on our views, which is fine and how the world should be. I just feel all babies should at least have a chance, as not all the babies growing up unwanted will be bad. I understand where you are coming from, though, and you make a good point. I won't agree with you, but I will say it is a good point:D Take care.

We both care deeply about babies, yet our perspectives are so different!

Yes, I'd like to agree to disagree for I do understand your thoughts, respect them too though not completely agree with them:) but, I like to say I do appreciate the fact that you feel so strongly for the babies to have a chance at life, that is commendable, and I'm sure you would make a great parent for undoubtely you will treasure them. We do need more people like you in the world:) Have a great day.

Well said - I agree with this completely!

Me too... I have to ask myself: How is is okay to involve politics when it comes to aborting a fetus without looking at the larger scope of fertility and fertility 'options'... so often these days women are having babies conceived in petri dishes, doctors implant sometimes 4 embryos and when 3 of them thrive, they do a 'selective reduction'... that is 'selective abortion'... There is a bigger issue out there... people's rights to choose parenthood, whatever that means for them. I don't think it's right to pay hundreds of thousands of dollars to have an embryo implanted and then aborted, but who am i to say a group made up mostly of older, white men (our govornment) should tell that woman what to do? Women have always had, and will always terminate unwanted pregnancies, the issue is making them safe and legal.

Then the mothers need to be more responsible and learn that life has consequences. That is why our world's morals are in shambles, because we always offer an easy way out for every single bad situation. Learn not to have sex if you are 14 or stop doing drugs if you are pregnant. Killing someone is not the reason. How is this different from killing say a cop for pulling you over for drunk driving. You did something wrong but you don't want the consequences from it, so you kill the person who is going to bust you. Seems the same to me. Also, if you are not financialy, physically, or emotionally ready, don't have sex. It is a simple solution. Don't kill an innocent little baby because of your stupid mistakes.

What about the father's responsibility for his 'stupid mistakes'? Eh? I believe a lot of women choose abortion based at least in part on the kind of man the father is. Is he a rapist, a drug addict, in prison, abusive, mentally unstable, totally irresponsible? Choosing abortion in some circumstances IS the best thing for the potential child. Not to mention the mother who all too often ends up shouldering the entire responsibity for the kids with NO help from the man. 90% of all households below the poverty line in the U.S. are headed by single mothers. Until this changes and men step up for their 'mistakes' and stop being such 'deadbeat dads', we have to be more compassionate towards the women who make this choice. They have their reasons, and I don't see society stepping up with an 'it takes a village to raise a child' attitude. Kids are expensive, and too often the father leaves the baby solely in it's mother's care. Sorry, but until either men or society changes, it's her choice.

and the man who never gets to see his baby, he deserves a chance to become a father, he needs a choice too!!!

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