Is anyone else here in a long distance relationship?

A long distance lover is hard to have I know I have been threw it however things work out or you meet someone else?

I'm in a LDR. My fiance is in another country and I'm here in America. I went with him to his country for about 3 months. Now I'm back in America and it's hard not being with him everyday. I have 7 more weeks left until we're together again. But you no doubt must be having a harder time since you have more time to wait:(

Hang in there!

yes i agree i was in an long distance relationship for almost a year, we was 800 miles apart. i also agree that the longer you talk the better of you are. if you can hold the love threw a certain amount of time and still be together thats true love love. altho it does have its down sides like going crazy wanting to put your arms around each other or holding each other tight at night which you cant do. im glad i held out because hes the sweetest more wonderful man ive ever met.

i agree. just like the saying goes... absense makes the heart grows founder... i guess having that kind of relatiobship will help make strong bonds with your loved one. your trust and honesty and faithfulness to each other will be tested.

i know what you mean, is very hard to have a far away relation, but i think that deserve to find real love, is like a test(i hate this test), any way who have a relation like this know what i mean, sometimes want to finish all, pain is to big, but in 2 min, your feelings are stronger, any way rational person suffer too, even find a lot of explinations, a lot of reasons, long distance is so hard to accept...but this is life, who are toghether dont know to apreciate, who are separated suffer...will be better for all i think

My husband and I are apart, too. he is in Florida and I am in Texas. We won't be together again for at least 5 more months. In our situation, we hardly talk at all since he works 18 hour days right now. he calls in the morning and then calls at night to tell the kids goodnight. That's about it. Our relationship is getting stronger, I do believe that, but we don't talk much. LOL We have also been toghter for over 10 years so we pretty much know everything there is to know. LOL It's hard, but it's worth it in the end. Hang in there. 5 months isn't all THAT long...seems like it sometimes, but it will be over soon.

Hello!
I must tell you i fully agree with your oppinion about LDR, because i`m in the same case too . Unfortunately me and my boyfriend meet only once .. or in good cases twice a month . I know that`s not enough .. but i can assure you our love is growing day by day .. because we keep on talking .. we talk about everything .. that makes us happy or sad .. or just chit chat .. it doesn`t matter ..as long we hear each others voice every day .We also have almost 5 months left apart .. but i think that if we survived 1 and a half year in a LDR .. 5 months will pass quicly and distance will surely won`t break us apart . When love really exists between 2 persons .. it doesn`t matter the distance .. the year difference or the social statute .. because together everything can be solved .

I am also in a long distance relationship and I agree with you 100 percent. We have been doing this long distance thing a long time, and though it is tough at times it is very worth it.

I think that if you don't get to see the one you are with all the time like normal relationships it can make the relationship stronger. When you do actually get to see them it is so special, its an amazing feeling. It makes being with each other so much better. Thats how I feel at least!

I do dislike being so far away sometimes, but if you love someone and it is worth the wait, than I don't think long distance relationships are a problem.

Good luck with you and your husband!

I have been threw it... Its hard... and costly too... we met through email... and get to know each other for 1 year by sending and reply email... 1 year after that, we continue with talking each other through phone... from that time my phone bill started to increasing rapidly... i meet her after a year then... finally, we got married and i move into his place... lucky for me, i had been transfer to my wife place 6 month before we got married...

I'm also in LDR. We've recently just met in person for the first time and it was the most wonderful week we've had. We live in the same country but an hours flight away, and we can only meet every couple of months or so. But we're happy this way and I've never had a better relationship with anyone else.